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My best friend is dating another girl i like her
she still expects me to be her friend but i have had enough. he often tells me i am attractive or look pretty but is not interested in me.’”, and it’s hard to figure out the right answer. told me our personalities were better off as friends, since i was the wild one and he was an innocent one. my best friend is a guy and him and my ex ended up close friends too. for it to work both parties have to have the same mindsets when it comes to relationships and both have to have clearly set limits on what is acceptable and unacceptable if this friendship is to take place. having a guy best friend isn’t the problem in relationships.!While he’s your friend who’s acting like he wants more, but says that he doesn’t, demonstrate your expectations of him as a parter…as if he’s a potential, but live your life. i’d love to spend time with her but i need to know she is available. need to ask themselves sometings that are in relationships and have best freinds of the opposite sex. if he has problems with his relationship, he better sort it out and stop making things complicated. message:I do have a guy best friend since many years. well ofcourse i would be jealouse too if he had a girl best friend. look, maybe your best friend is an exception to the rule. article is some how true n for my side i’ve got two male bff one of them is just normal though sometimes iwonder how he really feels but ireally dont give adamn.’s natural for two people of the opposite sex to get attracted to each other. it’s like women like to play alpha-female now too, just like some men enjoy seeing how many females they can string along or hook up with (regardless of gender, i think this is wrong and stupid).. would you be jealous if the person you were dating had close friends of the opposite sex? unless we ended up actually together as a couple…there will be no easy road…whether we stay friends or not….” he’s obviously going to hit on you unless he thinks he has no chance with you. he isn’t attracted to me at all, and although i think he’s attractive in his own way, i’m not attracted to him. i never got too close though and knew to maintain boundaries. after all, the more single a girl appears to be, the more desirous she becomes in the eyes of all men around her. women want to have backup plans just in case the relationship doesn’t work. you are being sexist toward men, as well, by suggesting that they cannot control themselves. at first sight, men want their woman to look good, and women want a man who can appreciate her. he’s considerably older (i’m 29, he’s 41) and we’ve been there for each other through it all-my crazy “i just turned 21” drinking days, his messy divorce, my abusive ex, and his current verbally and emotionally abusive girlfriend. but mainly, you need to be 100% honest with each other from the start. its now a year later and i’m not to shy anymore but i’m still shy bu he doesn’t really flirt anymore but he does act nervous sometimes . now when he says he misses me –it is with more urgency. then there is no point for us to date each other. but if you are truly attractive, your best guy friend is probably beating himself off now and then thinking and fantasizing about you sexually! the first couple of years i actually thought he was gay, because he is very good looking and would only mention he had a ‘relationship’ and not a girlfriend. if another woman is better for him, that would be a wonderful blessing. i know his past relationships, and he knows my past relationships. there, done that, kissed him and ended up seeing his hands inside my bra. another one was gay and had some sort of weird attraction to me (this happens alot with gay guys though lol). we both rely on each other to fill roles and do things for each other ( including sexually ) that we would not ask our partners to do.. even though i really want to be his girlfriend 🙁 and we do seem like we are dating. were really close, but then she accused me of trying to force her into a relationship. personally think that whether guys and girls can be best friends depends on the girl, really. i would like to share my thoughts on having ‘guy best friend’. as long as i’m not given any reason to not trust my partner, i don’t see why it’s a problem to have a guy best friend. how can you even compare the above statement to getting an erection while cuddling kids or family members. eventually i asked him if there was something between us and he said no he still felt like we were just two good friends. but on the other hands, siblings who never lived together during their formative years may at times end up getting sexually attracted to each other if they meet during adulthood. i suspect he’s just trying to flirt with me to make sure that i still have interest for him. ever since my male bestie has been acting kinda territorial, i haven’t met anyone!.is their certain aspects of that freindship hidden from your significant other? we are both interested in other people, and he is probably my closest friend in the whole world. but in relationships it’s a violation and it leaves the door open for all types of convenient hookups. my girlfriend didn’t know me before that, so she probably thinks i have always been this jealous. but for years and i mean 8+ years, he always told me he had no feelings…. the average woman will defend this by calling a guy insecure, or jealous, or lacking trust. so i completely agree with this article, we as women don’t realize it but men has no limits in going for their own sexual fantasies, it is on our hands as girls to keep ourselves limited, if we really found them interested in that way. give each other advice every once in a while and neither his girlfriend or my boyfriend are jealous of each other. forbes-terry is an amateur writer, sarcasm enthusiast, and constant complainer of how much she hates her . if that’s not sexual attraction, what the hell is? and that’s because of me, not her, mind you. all i know is that when it comes to feeling love for someone this sort of male friend is no small obstacle. (though i’ve been known to be a little cuddly with girl friends too. the elderly aunt who offers solace and a shoulder in crisis. if the boyfriend can’t i reject him, cus i would accept if his best friend was a girl.” admittedly, she’s a pain in the neck and i’m not just saying that, because she likes him.!You say you’re not physical with your male friends, which means you’re intentionally trying to keep some distance, so how does that make any of those guys your best friend? it’s bias to say that all girls like shopping and cooking all day . agree with a number of points made in this post, but from personal experience this post is questionable. i even hinted that he had strong feelings for a co-worker.
My best guy friend is dating another girl
no, i’m not naive, i do know and we have made a pact that, if in the future we are alone again, then we will take our relationship further. that way, if you guys do get together, he’ll be good to you both as a friend and as a partner. but any guy i dated was uncomfortable with it, and eventually i realize that if they are all uncomfortable with it, there must be a reason. also say the women gets married is she going to split the time she has with her husband and best friend 50/50? once, we hanged out together w/ our group of friends again and he started being very close to me physically. we’re almost like brother and sister, we can finish each others sentences and predict what the other person is going to do in almost any given situation. if it never does come together, you’ll have a friend for life who can tell your boyfriend/husband how to get his act together.! if he becomes standoffish or disappears, you know his true motives. i say that if any guy is any of those things (especially to the extreme) you shouldn’t consider him as a potential partner anyways…unless you feel that’s what you deserve. feel great around him and he seems to like you too. guy matched with a girl on tinder just so he could body shame her. sex isn’t everything and not everything should depend on it. i’ve also had a complicated physical past with most of them. i feel u have a spark go for it and forget he has a gf just talk normally and he already lieks an he will more forget abot her and remember is the fututre that u to cherish the important.” ever since then, we’ve been talking about it we were like if we should try dating. i had met this guy who i was very attracted to and we became friends and then my friends and his friends became friends and we hooked-up a few times. any guy would hook up with any girl their attracted to, the rest just depends on the circumstances. 3 doesn’t necessarily help my case, it is very possible for a guy to have a girl friend (or several) and never have anything happen, sexually., just in the the last few weeks i noticed a change in him. also think that if a women or man has a certain bond or connection with the opposite sex while their having a serious relationship it will eventually cause problems . anyway, now i have her friend telling her what i’ve already told her and that is how i like her and how i’ve had a crush on her. his sister told me he was on a date so he probably wouldn't be there. he’s my cuddle buddy and i love him to death. i’m sorry if saying so makes others mad, but it is. although i am only speaking from my own, personal experience. he has a girlfriend and his status is in a relationship.?I’m in a relationship right now and my girlfriend has a couple guy friends and she keeps telling me how she will become really close with them and this freaks me out so much. we hit it off right off the bat, mostly because he was training me and showing me how to do everything when the manager couldn’t. i think it’s super cliché to be “in love” with your best friend so i’ve tried to steer away from that but i’d be lying if i said i don’t compare guys i date to him.. and right now, he lives half way across the country. i found out through a casual conversation with him that he was and has been attracted to me for some time. when they talk to each other and share details about their lives. was single and i was single and we hooked up and developed “feelings” for eachother. i too have a good guy friend, but it came up to a point where we started sharing sexual chemistry and get touchy feely and i ended up falling for him. i think every relationship is different though and it has to do with how secure you are in that, but i also think that jealousy (and feeling possessive of the person you’re dating) is normal as long as you’re not crazy and behave accordingly. when i’m in troubled situations he’s always the first i go to. so, i asked him why he asked said me that and he said “i thought about it a couple times. the time when he got a gf, i could remember that she got jealous of me and he ended up protecting me. i play video games and watch action movies and i talk to them about how to talk to girls. i’ve never in all my years seen a (straight) man say that he has a great girl for a bff, they are just platonic, and he has no sexual interest in her. in all, i don’t find this article to be completely false. he’s admitted that to me…i’m his bestie remember? someone when i was 15 or when i was 22, then the chica does not qualify, to. but for now he is taken and you need to be respectful to this girls feelings.@hanna, it’s true, if you know a guy from childhood, things may be different. the one in particular is cute and we get a long really well.“more and more people engaging in these platonic opposite-sex friendships, it sounds like the world is evolving”. he flirts with my friends a lot but i know he’s not intrested in them because he’s married and he’s told me what he thinks of them. can stay friends with him if you want, but i would tone it down on the flirting. you’re never going to find real love until you start being high maintenance., in your case, you’re talking about a guy friend, not a guy best friend. when i talked to my bf about this, he thinks my guy friend is jealous and realized he had feelings for me.. why do you think guys are threatened by a girl having guy friends and vice versa? i have been on the other end of this situation, and it really hurts and is no fun at all. we really enjoy each others company and couldn’t imagine our lives without the other in it. guy best friend may seem like perfect company for every girl, but are they worth the effort? or was this whole ‘friendship’ thing just a big joke to him…to boost his ego further? so when the author says that a man can’t cuddle, it’s with respect to this aspect of a man’s side. your guy friend hid his attraction and used to occupy a certain level of attention from you. although sex, love or attraction didn’t enter into things, he did end up treating me like a baby sister and being seriously overprotective which got on my nerves, and then when he started dating and was an arse to these poor other women, i started to see a change in him i really didn’t like. if they end up breaking up later on and he comes to you, then go for it, but make sure he is over it, you don’t want to be a rebound. i wasn’t looking nor have i ever been interested in another guy besides my husband. i got cold feet about liking this girl and decided i really should slow my feelings down because this is probably a lot more complicated than it looks. i have liked this guy for at least a year, but he is in a semi-long-distance relationship. i asked her if there was anything there before me and she lied. i mean, i have no interest in dating him, so why would i care what he does? long story short, we are still with our own spouses, we’ve decided that we will remain close friends that have a lot in common and have a ton of fun when we see each other.’d like to take a moment to defend the relationship i have with my best friend; nate.
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when i first started he would try to make conversation ,flirt a lot ,and wink ,by i was always so shy because i had a crush in him and thought it could be something until i looked at his finger and saw a ring ! our relationship is purely platonic, and i believe we’re both fine with that. she scrambled to cancel the call before i could see it. you could tell him how you feel, but because he has a girlfriend, it might do much to help your situation. i might end up giving in by letting her tell me she doesn’t like me. when i got back this guy that i had been pretty good friends with before expressed interest in me. me and my best friend are perfectly fine, thank you very much.!Pingback: how to make a guy jealous and get his attention - lovepanky().”, but get this…he can’t keep his hands off of me, he stalks my facebook page, leaving me voicemails about my status, brings me whatever in the world i ask for, and doesn’t dare mention another female around me. truths about being in an undefined relationship (from a girl who’s in one). we share a connection that is deeper and way more intimate on all levels than anyone we have been with. if he’s not hitting on you then he’s either holding down the urge to or getting his ‘needs’/’fancying a girl’ elsewhere. they tell me things with no bullshit, especially when it’s not the answer i want to hear. i have to keep these relationships strictly about our shared interest and not start sharing my ‘feelings’ etc…because they start thinking i like them. i consider my male best friend as a brother to me. my mindset has always been, “your/their friends were there first and will likely be there after you break up. it seems like all people do is try to make a problem out of nothing. [read: get a guy to kiss you when you want him to! i just wrote mine a 4 page love letter…what’s good for a guy in the situation is fair game for the female. dont know if she liked me, some people told me she did for 2 months, but if she did she should have just fucken told me instead of playing games. i know that providing ‘a listening ear’ was not going to achieve anything but we were really enjoying each others company. i wouldn’t know about the boyfriend thing since i haven’t been interested in dating, but i have always hung out in a big group of guys since 7th grade! and whether you like it or not, there’s a big chance that it’ll also damage your self esteem and confidence in attracting the opposite sex, especially if he’s a sexy guy who’s obviously straight. his replies tend to be slower than usual but he still makes the initiative to snapchat me at times. i can act secure sometimes, but either way it is not good for me to feel this way.. what is the biggest benefit of having friends of the opposite sex? friends of the opposite sex have a place in relationships. after i mail it and he reads it, i’m going to act like it neve happened. dumped my ex-gf because she hid her sexual past that she had with 2 guy friends. i do have 2 unattrative women that i talk to, but they are into me. my best friend and boyfriends always seem to develop an understanding that if i am out with my guy bff, i’m safe.’ve had a male best friend for nearly 14-15 years of my life. all i want is to make him know that it’s wrong what he does! i’ve seen it both ways, where they’ve had no problems with me and where they haven’t enjoyed that i’m one of their girlfriend’s top friends (i’m in the top two with all of my female friends). and looking back, while i certainly may have felt that my relationships with any man bff i’ve had were platonic, can i really say with certainty that they felt the same way? if you have a good group of guy friends and you want to date one of them, it’s hard to navigate the boundaries of that — so i would advise against it. don’t ignore your feelings, don’t play games, don’t treat him like he’s a leper, but just live and enjoy your life to the fullest. i found out about my ex’s male “friend” when i looked thru her phone. now mind you, this was a close circle of friends and not a 1:1 close friendship. flirts a lot with me (he wrote his name in a heart on my pencil case) and it’s giving me mixed messages. if the only difference between your male best friend and you boyfriend is sex, then you only have a fuck buddy you go out with, not a real boyfriend. but at the price they come with, it’s a lot easier to just date them and get them out of your way to happiness. and from all that everytime i see him over started to gain a crush on him. when we both aren’t seeing anyone we have sex, and we share all sorts of things with each other we don’t share with boyfriends or girlfriends. my only bestie is smokin hot sexy and so am i. but his answer was you are my friend, but you are a girl. talk almost constantly in lessons and get into trouble for it, we are always messing around poking, pushing each other and fighting with pens. culture perpetuates the myth that men and women cannot have platonic relationships as a self-serving justification for their inability to show discretion in their sexual and romantic choices.. because clearly there are females that feel these tasks fuel little of personal interest. agreed not to jump the gun and remain friends for now and see where everything goes in the future. there will be no male-female trips or late night outs with any partner of mine. the reason why it doesn’t work most of the time is that, thanks to the omnipresence of sex, guys tend to think with their penises instead of thinking rationally with their minds thus not they are not even willing to properly give it a chance and try to have girls that are just friends for a change. but that’s not the point, so a few days ago, i broke up with this guy, and then my best friend was back to his normal self. well i go through the same thing but in my case, he has a girlfreind and we use to chat but now we sopped cause it wasnt working out and he is the type of guy that wouldnt flirt or fool around with yuu cause he is loyal to his girlfriend and it hurts. he sooo likes u and i have the same problem we get in trouble a lot but he has a gf but he keeps looking at me and i really like him and its so difficult coz i dont know wt to do either., i went to school with this straight friend for years and i developed feelings for him. teens plotted to rob and murder a classmate because they were ‘tired’ of her snapchat messages. we go to the mall, and movies, shop for shoes, and do laundry together. & my best friend became best friends cause a girl witch started to talk tons of shit of me my best friend decided to be my best friend since i didn’t have nobody by my side with sucked trust me he was older than me but like it only tock 5 days to become bff we started talking because i would mess around with him since his moms a teacher at school i would tell him “oh i’m tell your mom i’m your girlfriend ” but i never did then everyday we would call each other hours oovoo calls & also hours . although i knew how it would make me look, i had to know for my own sanity. he tells me everything about him and we have talked about travel to places once we’re older. glad to see there are male/female relationships out there based on nothing more than solid friendship, beers at the pub and comradery. just watched love, rosie and ended up wondering if a girl and a boy can really be best friends without being attracted to each other. he liked me ever since january 2014 and i have still liked him since then. this doesn’t mean this guy friend wanted a relationship with you, but he definitely wanted to get physical. some girls don’t like that you tell your friends more than you’ll tell them; some think you’re secretly sleeping with all of them; some don’t like the threat of that possibly happening. sounds a lot like what’s happening to me right now. do not understand how a man’s brain works and that’s why men are always skeptical and threatened by other men around their women.
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all this talk about awkward moments and mixed intentions happened rarely. your partner starts to feel a way on why you talk so much with your bff and do stuff with them that you cant do with your partner then you’re a creating a scenario in their head making them jealous. wine don’t get is that men don’t always want a relationship with their female friends, many times we just want to be inside you. if she had previously slept with one of them, i’d like to know; but even then, i’d probably still be cool with it, depending on what the situation was. that’s crossing the line, of course it is inappropriate! we are always on the phone, texting, snap chatting, you name it. i finally flat out asked a month ago if he’d ever thought about us being a couple, because i wanted to know what the heck was going on. we’ve set each other up with other people before. and then right after would cover it with ‘int he future’ or ‘if emma wasn’t here’…. : your case is different, you used to date your bff who is a guy so that automatically changes the dynamic of your current “friendship” with him. we’ve never had sex, never been touchy feely, and we act like brother and sister. i started getting nervous about his girlfriend and he said he’s “sneaky”.. bt a year went by and then me and his friend confronted each other bout our feelings i then firstly didnt know what to do but my mum told me to follow my heart. he knows that he is going through now, what i was going through in recent history. off, men aren’t built to blend in with women and gossip about last year’s fashion and fancy detox diets.’m a guy and i can completely assure you, hands down, (you can ask any other male in the world), if a guy thinks you look good, there’s no way he can ever just stay friends with you.. have you ever had a one-night fling (anything from kissing to sex) with a friend of the opposite sex, and leave it at that? i also noticed that girls who have many male friends (implies best friends too) tend to like male attention more than typical women. and if that other guy likes her he should have already have done this. this was not the case before he entered the picture in this way..so i stay a “friend” but he doesn’t know that i would do anything just to make him smile,and it breaks my heart to see him and his girlfriend together to the point of tears. but i just can’t stop thinking about him, when he makes me laugh i get butterflies and can’t help but grin. things you need to know before dating an outgoing introvert. and it’s pretty sad to think this way because he doesn’t seem to be this kind of person. not long ago, i found out that he recently got attached and it broke my heart. will begin weeping with joy, confess he feels the exact same way, leave the girl he is dating and run over to your house to make sweet sweet love to you as fast as his converse can carry him. and to the commenter above that says it’s weird to cuddle with an opposite sex friend-i’ve been there too. all i had to do was imagine myself as one of the many women he toyed with and instantly, i knew that i didn’t even want him anywhere near my private parts. and if a guy fights with you because your best friend is a dude, then he is not meant for you. i had a big party, he texted to say he'd be late, no big deal. no longer are either of us comfortable on the phone. nevertheless, even if you did find a straight guy who hasn’t shown any interest in you sexually, there are a few things you need to remember. i’ve never in all my years seen a (straight) man say that he has a great girl for a bff, they are just platonic, and he has no sexual interest in her. he never made direct references to me and neither did i to him but we both knew how to read between the lines. they way he plays with me is almost as if he likes me. however, with my three best female friends, that hasn’t seemed to ruin our friendships. if a guy does not fall into one of those three categories, he wants to have sex with you, no questions asked. i wish i would have read this years ago so at least there would have been a chance i would not have fallen into the “‘having a guy best friend is perfect’ mentality then we ended up having sex and ruining everything and now we are awkwardly trying to work things out” situation.’re at the point where it’s as if we’re almost a couple, but we are absolutely not. i just need a guy who can understand that it’s alright for a girl to have a guy best friend. i can understand where she’s coming from, of course, but in the end they too have a better relationship from this. i don’t know if it is true…i just keep asking myself why he would keep such a thing from me? im in marching band*yes i a nerd lol* but i came to like this guy,name edwin , like he’s amazing,fun, and have a awesome smile. i’m much more comfortable if it was like a group of girls than if his best friend was a girl. it means i can have the funniest conversations with them that i could never have with a girl friend because she’d be embarrassed or be giggling too much. you may have found yourself a guy best friend, but in all probability, you could have just found a guy who’s either too timid or confused with his intentions. would you really be comfortable knowing that you’re arousing a best friend each time you get comfy with him? but there are other great topics and discussions we can share.: a couple have said that they would want to date me because we got along and they thought i’d make a good boyfriend, but i didn’t necessarily feel the same way. all of the scenarios are definitely options and events that could happen within a platonic relationship between a guy and a girl, but this does not mean everyone will have the same problems., fast forward, i have a huge problem on my hands that will hopefully be all straightened out soon and that is, i decided that it would be a good (honestly bad) idea to have an affair with a male friend. a man who isn’t really your man as your arm candy is fashionable and safe. at the time i would say yes, but now i’m not so sure. he’s an attractive person, but i really have any feelings feel him in that type of way. women i knew respected what i had even if they weren’t really happy for me. i don’t know if i should tell his girlfriend because i don’t want to lose him as a friend and i really like him. this is just embarrassing for everyone… 4 of my absolutely best friends is guys, and they are like brothers to me. since it’s just a crush and still controllable, you can start by ignoring his flirtatious acts and just be “friends”. why would any guy want to have a friend who just talks all day long unless he thinks you’re sexually attractive? he can’t commit, but he won’t stay out of your space? over the the last 4/5 years we cuaght up but only in passing. they want to know that they are more important than your current man. eventually, my straight guy friend and i took it to another level, with alcohol involved, where we did some extremely heavily grinding and feeling. that means she anticipates the worst and her actions are clouded by fear and selfishness. i think it kind of depends on how often they hang out and if it’s a group or not. even then, they are not strong enough to where i feel that she needs to know. i know it’s hard to ditch your crush, but he’s kind of acting like a jerk to both you and his girlfriend. secondly, men don’t care about friends, at least the women kind.
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thing is if you are dating the person first and then you meet someone and becomes your bestfriend then something is wrong. am currently in a relationship, with my girlfriend who has a male as a best friend, i have never considered myself a jealous boyfriend and previous relationships, but i have been in this one.’m ok with guy friends as long as boundaries are there. your true love will see it that way and will want to please you equally. the person i know will do anything for me and always has a shoulder for me to cry on. but suddenly he changed his mind and went out with her. one is that i have had several attractive female friends (wing women) and i was not interested in anything more than a platonic relationship. they are my best friends and i dont know what id do without them. may seem just perfect with a male bff in your arm, but is it really as simple as it seems or are you just wearing those murky rose tinted glasses again? we crossed the line when i split up with my wife 2 years ago but the relationship did not work. i don’t really know because i’d never told him that i like him but i think he could sense it. but more importantly, i now avoid those types of girls. i think girls get a bad rap for being possessive but in my experience guys are way more possessive and girls are just more jealous. and neither party would do anything to knowingly make the other party upset. i have no intentions on being “the other woman”…but i don’t mind if he wants to be friends and thinks i’m cool and just wants another friend. i think any woman with a man bff is being incredibly naive. i just don’t know how to tell him to stop telling me that i’m beautiful and stuff! love a bit of body contact with their friends all the time. our conversations became much more frequent and changed to much more personal ones, our hopes, dreams, likes and next thing i know we talked about leaving our spouses to make a life with each other. anyways, with me it was my looooong time best friend from when we were kids. me put it another way: is this really your dream guy, or the guy who you happen to be stranded on the desert island with? perhaps its because we grew up together and dating him would be like dating a brother.. and he blatantly listened and walked away i felt like crying because my boeta dont seem to be happy . all of their ex bf’s and i remained friends. i have a guy best friend and we’ve been friends for over 10 years. i’m sure you already know where i’m going with this—he’s in love with me and has been for a very long time. the only real problem is my friends think that i’m dating a guy, whose on a south african mission trip and cheating on him with my best friend. unfortunately society has perverted young guys into always looking for sex and into thinking that girls are only objects of desire and nothing else. honestly, i would stop talking to his guy so much. however, if my friend asks me what i think of their boyfriend, i’ll tell them the truth, be it nice or not. because if he did, he wouldn’t care or say anything in order not to lose you. anyway, my point is-sometimes it’s no problem, but once in awhile-it is. when me and my girlfriend started dating some 3 years ago she had this guy friend she said she would never defriend. think a lot of this is bull, well for me it is. have a crush on a guy but we turned out to be best friends. have shown that if a guy and a girl are friends from when they were very young, they don’t get sexually attracted when they grow up because the relationship is imprinted in their brain. do you really want to mess with evolution’s master plan of bringing a man and a woman closer only for sex? may end up falling in love with him, or he may end up falling in love with you. he has dated girls and i have dated guys and we talk about it and sex all the time but has never hit on me. recently though he has started flirting even more with me than is usual, and after one school field trip my best friend told me that the rest of the group we were walking with was commenting on how much he was flirting with me, and what a “cute couple” we would be. now that you focus on your bf, this guy feels left out and his ego is hurt. is the most accurate thing i’ve ever read in my life. was taught people in couples do not have meals alone with the opposite sex, or any outing. when she dates someone they don’t know i exist and vice versa. confusions, jealousies and hidden feelings always crop up and complicate the relationship. after a few talks and i told her he was in love with her no matter what her intentions are they quit communicating. so, all in all, sexual attraction does not mean that anything is actually going to happen. but he’s coming back christmas break, and i think he asked me out on a date… but in all, what is trying to find out is that does he like me?, i have been involved in a relationship with a different guy for a few yrs. to them its perfectly normal to be close friends with a guy. i really do think he likes u because he wrote ur name in pencil with a heart such a big sign. although we both knew nothing can ever happen, we were both aware that there was a strong spark,a connection between us. now it’s to the point we have sex even when we have boyfriends or girlfriends behind their backs. i do consider him my best friend and his loyalty to his marriage prevents him from saying the same to me, but i do know how he feels about me. now we both use “working too much and trying to focus on being a better peson” as an excuse not to have a relationship with other people, but we still manage to find time for eachother. i would have totally tried a relationship out with her. it means to be a best friend to a survivor with ptsd. and why is choosing a male best friend over a boyfriend an issue, it wouldn’t be raised if it was a female friend. have this too, except the person he is going out with is one of my friends. so just think, a girl with a male best friend will never have a completely secure boyfriend. Find out why guy best friends are nothing but trouble. we’ve never had a lapse in friendship, we’ve never fought or anything. now we are back together and she explains there is no attraction between them, but when she confides in him about our relationship i do get insecure. i’ve done quite a bit of drinking with one of my best female friends and we’ve never engaged in a sexual activity when drunk. our customers (who are always older men) always joke with us and say “you know what that means. i always thought it was weird so i started to think maybe he was gay himself. my general philosophy towards opposite sex best friends has been 1) friendship comes first, 2) treat them in the same manner i would a guy friend of equal standing, 3) if i end up liking them and nothing’s going to come of it, just move on, 4) never do anything when drunk that wouldn’t happen when sober, and 5) just be honest, as i would with any other friendship. now the girl almost acts guilty or acts apologetic when i see them walking together.
, i have to agree with some things written in this article, but in general i don’t think it could be taken as a general rule. and vice versa is a dude going to split his time evenly with his female best friend and his wife? if both think so then it might be a happy ending. nate and i dated for a while about a year after we met, but it was too weird so we downgraded to friends again. i’m worried because half of me wants to keep flirting but the other half is concerned for emma, his girlfriend. all of my exes started out as acquaintances, then we hung out more, then casually dated, then were together.’ve just given a jealous boyfriend all the ammunition he needs to demand that his girlfriend cut ties to the most important person in her social support system. one or both will start to think that their friend is actually a suitable love partner. it would be nice if she showed an ounce of empathy for the hard time i was going through as i was very depressed from my frustrations at home. there has never been anything “sexual” between us, nor do i doubt there ever will be. i guess it depends on the context of the relationship.… i just want to know if he only considers me as a bro. sum up, i guess from my own personal experience, you can never be ‘best friend’ with the opposite sex because attraction gets in the way…. i live for me and the thrill of life, making time for him due to our friendship and nothing else..i really like this bit of advice nd yeah girls and guys best friends is a tricky situation i would know because all my friends are guys mostly because i grew up with boys nd was a tomboy. seems a shame that 90% of folks can’t understand that people can actually have close friendships regardless of gender. you may love to hold your guy best friend’s hands or cuddle in now and then while watching a movie on the couch. i think partly because i have trust issues and i think something might happen. he thought if we stopped hooking up, the feelings would go away and i thought so too. when a man who’s your best friend gets attracted to several other women, some of whom don’t look half as good as you, it’ll always make you wonder why he doesn’t like you in the first place. signs you’re ready to go from casually dating to exclusively dating. be the shoulder to cry on but someone who does not bring the drama or abuse.” you shouldn’t get mad at her for having friends who were there before you ever came into the picture. i used to be very introverted, but he has brought me out of my shell and made me more outgoing and more sure of myself. i am confused about is this……ever since i entered a relationship, my guy friend started acting different. ways to friend zone a guy without leading him on. can tell i’m seriously clueless when i find myself google-ing “my friend has a girlfriend but flirts with me”. it kills me how some women say that some men are insecure or jealous when if the shoe was on the other foot they would feel the sameway. forward to the present where i have had to move 2000 miles away for my job. mainly because all the women i befriended constantly got into drama fits and arguments and just stupid little things. with these particular guy friends, the straight guy i have never been with intimately and he is still a virgin, but we have crossed the line on dirty grinding dancing and feeling up. we don’t even speak now because he was such a douche to the women he dated. but with all the late night conversations and touchy feely time together, love is bound to enter the picture one way or the other. i known them since we were 6 years old, and we are now 27. and honestly speaking, before he got attached, i’d always thought he had feelings for me. she has fought for me so many times with her boy friends. or angry at me just being around, i’ve never actually been friends with any boyfriends she’s had in the past, but i do know i’ve apparently been a ‘problem’ before, they’ve all been a** holes anyway but don’t tell her i said that. so just stay friends and if he does break up with his girlfriend, then by all means, go get him! it’s not something i’m used to; i’m used to liking him for him. she lied about the nature of their relationship the whole time we dated off and on. i’ve been trying that and with most it’s fine but i’ve also had some awkwardness with a few. i have just had my heart broken from someone who i considered to be my ‘good/best friend’. few years ago, he finally started mentioning her my name, yet they have never lived together, but are boyfriend and girlfriend, and i know now that she is not happy about our friendship. so, we maintained friends and eventually grew into good friends. he was becoming more and more distant and i was getting more and more desperate to hang on to him. best friends may help you understand the world of men better, and may even help you devise the perfect way to snag a smoldering hunk for yourself. my friend is one of the sweetest guys i know, very kind, thoughtful, funny, and romantic. no need to entertain them while you’re in a committed relationship. besides, what kind of a guy are you if you can’t even talk to a girl for more than 2 seconds without feeling the sick need to **** her everytime? writer of this article would probably consider me a transexual. was blindsided by your leaving, but i will move on. i confronted her about it after i read a few of the text messages. we joke around and he’ll push me whenever he walks by, makes goofy faces at me and ttys to block me when i walk by. yet, he initiates flirting with me…or at least thats what others would call it. to do when you and a friend are into the same guy. that’s why siblings who spend a lot of time together during their infantile years don’t get sexually attracted to each other (i know, sounds gross). oh and it definitely cant be him having feelings for me because he fell inlove with my sister friend and before i started dating i hooked them up and he wud share nd tell me how crazy he is about her but she wudnt date him because she was playing hard to get and he would always ask me to help him set up romantic dates bt that was before i started dating. article is true, and i’ve experienced it first hand and have even researched it because i just couldn’t understand why none of my guy friends could ever just stay friends! a guy-girl friendship to truly work guys have to understand that there is another side to girls than just the way that is constantly portrayed in the media and society. and i know she knows it literally pains me when i see her with him. i am sure you would not like it, and be really hurt that your boyfriend was flirting with someone else and other girls were trying to take him. i barely managed to push him away and call another girl friend to pick me up., i love to dance and we would all go out dancing. neither of us care that we break every rule that same sex friends should keep. i like this guy but he’s taken well he kissed me yesterday at school and i felt kind of guilty cause its messed up what he is doing. male best friend does not have a real position as a brother, friend, or a boyfriend, rather he is a mix of all three. like us on facebook twitter pinterest and we promise, we’ll be your lucky charm to a beautiful love life. she’s even made a point to walk over to me when she has been standing next to him but i wonder if deep down this girl is just hoping that her “friend” is jealous, the way i am.
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with so many odds to work with, you may end up falling in love with each other, complicating and worsening relationships with other lovers, or just end up experiencing a painful case of unrequited love. don’t have any problems with having guy friends and i’m 23 and i’ve loved having them there for me more than i love having friends that are girls because girls are just drama. we care for each other deeply and compare everyone else we date to each other and often times we both feel like we will eventually wind up together in the end. there are many other things that can happen too, and not too many of them are happy endings. because we are a few hours apart, we don’t see each other face to face very often but we keep in touch quite often, but our conversations no longer consist of ‘bedroom’ talk. happens a lot, and so when i saw it in the message boards, i knew it needed to be discussed more. one guy who was my best friend for several years even took advantage of me when i was drunk and alone in his place by trying to make out with me. one of the guys (admittedly was a douche to women), so it was fairly easy to stay out of the attraction zone, even though he was cute as a frickin button. best friends are the worst idea ever because it’s not a two way street. when you find that he doesn’t show the slightest interest in you, it’ll hit you on your face like an insult. also, my man doesn’t mind it because his bff is a girl. you speak like this is an agenda for every single male to try something on with their girl mates at some point like it’s scientifically certain to happen, yes of course it happens (a lot i would imagine) but that’s hardly the case for everyone, it is possible for girls to have guy friends and vice versa without any kind of sexual attraction or hidden agenda. and, with this philosophy, i’ve never lost a best female friend of mine. face it: you guy friend doesn’t want a relationship with you, but will always compare himself with the men in your life. i’m good at being the male friend because i’ve been on the other side of the coin too many times. if your boyfriend had a smoking hot friend named alexis, you would surely experience jealousy as well. conversely, i would date one of my female friends, but i don’t think she feels the same way, and so i wouldn’t want to jeopardize what we have as friends. totally scares the crap out of them when he calls me on the bus bc i txt him my other guy friends are picking on me and he wants to put a stop to it! this article is basically saying i should stop being friends with the person i’ve been best friends with since preschool. on the other hand, my friend’s wife now hates me (although he says she doesn’t hate me and to give it time) since he and i have become closer friends. i’m a good looking dude who has attractive female friends. he also lets me see things from a male point of view which i think gives me a rich look at relationships or other scenarios where my girlfriends can’t help me out. he now sends me expensive bottles of wine and mentions wanting to share them with me in a tub with wine and candles…. i think the girl tries to convince herself that they are just friends but i know she really loves the attention as well.? coz i wud never of met my amazing boyfriend if it wasnt for my boeta. we don’t sit around bonding over bonbons and gilmore girls but we might go out for a couple drinks and really the thought never crosses my mind to hit on them. this is my solution, for any woman who has a similar issue. a whiny, confused brat who has no real idea how human relationships actually work. i think it’s benefic for both men and women to have friends of the opposite sex.’ve had a guy best friend since i was in elementary school… we are very close and we have been through a lot of things together. additionally afterward we went out (with a group) for ice cream and he was putting his arm around me, and since we were both really tired we were kind of leaning on each other. honest answers about having friends of the opposite sex, from a girl and a guy. after i start liking this girl who i have known for years i then realize that she parks with or near some male bus driver all day. i have had male best friends both gay and straight and i say that it can work if you just stay in your lane(s). what a surprise… but he still continues to flirt with me and get my hopes up, i am feeling second best and used…. it’s now to the point that we have both stopped seeing other people..nd i really fell inlove we now dating for almost a year but ever since we started dating my boeta has been avoiding me and ignoring me i visited his fam wen it was his mum bday and he walked out as soon as i entered i could sense he wanted nothing to do with me i confronted him asking if i did something wrong to upset him or wat. it’s led to a lot of fights in my love life. he was my shoulder to cry on; the guy who wanted to punch other guys’ hearts if they cheated on me or broke my heart., years pass, college passes, and we still end up being really close flirty friends who have never physically done anything, even kiss. and the assumption the article makes that girls just want to gossip all day and talk about dieting is blatantly sexist rubbish. what do i do if iv’e been best friends with the same guy for five years and my current boyfriend (of 3 years) like him too but i’m jealous of his new girlfriend? like i said before, i just feel more comfortable around guys (ironically, being raised by all women i am not sure how that worked out) so i’ve definitely had friends of mine who want to make that jump. its obviously okay for guys with girlfriends to have friends who are girls. he does say i’m attractive and i think he’s pretty good looking too. i also work with him more than the other guys, who we also get a long with and joke around with.. seems to me it’s, sometimes at least, the guy best friend being a trouble for the boyfriend more than the girl herself. i think if you care about your relationship and you have a lot of friends of the opposite sex the best thing to do is to have them spend time together so they can see there’s nothing to worry about. you deserve a guy who will give you all of his attention… not just part of it. can’t help but notice that whenever this topic comes up, it’s always women with a man bff who will say that it is just platonic, and defend the guy bff relationship. i’ve had relationships in the past, where my significant other has had a male “best friend”. everyone should have someone in their lives that makes them feel as worthy, happy and loved as my friend has made me. the feeling being mutual is great but scary at the same time because i want him to always be in my life so this is a delicate situation. let me move around my entire life to accommodate you, because i just love you soooooo much. if you have had close male friends in your lifetime, and none of them were attracted to you at any point in time, well, they probably didn’t find you attractive enough. he even admitted once that he sexually get aroused when he talks with me, but my question was hey i’m your good friend how come? either of you don’t end up falling in love with each other, sex enters the equation. and ew, who are these people who snuggle with their guy friends? think that males and female cant be just friends makes us sound like animals. he got a girlfriend before all of this started happening but she’s moving over the summer. however, when he makes demands on my time, like getting upset, because i’m not answering the phone, but then doesn’t call when he says he’s going to…i read him the riot act. she changes best friends all the time though, i just told myself we would always be best friends, 5 months later, not anymore. to be assertive: 17 ways to speak your mind loud and clear. ive heard opinions and i have a full understanding of most of your prespectives. i kinda want to move out of a friend zone yet i love the fact for having eachother sharing secrets and all the lil details in daily bases! like, he’s planning out the details and telling me them. i usually get easily close with guys than girls, but my very close ones are always girls; never be boys because i understand how biology or nature works. surprise he says he can’t ever go for a relationship because we are not compatible, but still he flirts with me, outings and even verbal flirting.
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everyone around is waiting on pins and needles to see what happens when i do meet someone else i’m genuinely interested in. the problem is your boyfriend being insecure about your friendship and whether or not your best friend is a true “friend” and knows their limits and keeps themselves in check. he had never had any known girlfriends and still says he is a virgin.’ve been a “guy friend” quite a bit in my early twenties, was awesome going out with a bunch of good looking girls is awesome for a guy even if there’s “nothing there” what ended up putting the kybosh on the whole deal was when i ended up in world war 3 with a lady who was actually mutual in her attraction, and as we were obviously more and more hitting it off as the night wore on, suddenly one of my “lady friends” got extremely negative confrontational and though i don’t like to use the word “bitchy” with the girl i liked, this escalated and the poor dear “the girl i was attracted to and was mutual” was suddenly set upon with much vehemence, i was shocked not just at the randomness and violence but also at the fact that not 3 months prior i had brooked the topic of me been interested in been more than friends with my lady friend and been politely but firmly rebuffed, the whole fiasco made me not go out to anything not football related for the entire football season. he is a virgin and he never felt the connect back for me. may all have started with a great conversation where both of you suddenly realize that you have a lot in common with each other. attractive, they are too, theres no sexual tension in the mix at all. may try to convince your new boyfriend that your bff is not sexually interested in you at all, but there’s no way your new man will ever be convinced of that. if i had a girlfriend (yes i’m bi) and she had a guy friend that she was touchy feely with or they were just too close for comfort, i’d have a problem, too, because that just isn’t how real friends act with each other. this came as a shock to me not only because i didn’t realize he felt this way but because i’ve felt the exact same way for a while now too but kept it to myself because i didn’t want to screw up our friendship. you’re screwing with nature having a best friend of the opposite sex. they’re out there in the world to sow their wild oats. my best guy friend and i have a been friends for quite a while. male best friend and i, a while back, had feelings for each other. sure it may occur that you fall for each other but it doesn’t absolutely have to happen every single time.’s because he says i’m like his best friend/brother but with the girly sixth-sense (lol! a negative side… boys i’ve dated have had issues. what if you knew some other girl liked your boyfriend and was flirting with him and telling him how she feels? we both agree that whenever one of us starts having feeling to the other party, we need to address it and be honest about it. essentially, i try to remain polite (as i would with any of my guy friends’ girlfriends) even if i don’t like them. or am i just jealous because i’ll start to lose contact with him after i’ve worked so hard to keep him in my life? i have slightly thought about kissing one, but honestly, who wouldn’t when they don’t have anyone else to think about? it takes everything in me to ignore it sometimes, and i’m starting to get the hint that he struggles with the same thing. i’ve had guy best friends(yes, multiple) my entire life, and it has never been a problem. guy best friend may seem like perfect company for every girl, but are they worth the effort? these seem to be the days though when he’s most attracted to me. in all, i believe that if you are committed to making the friendship work, it will. but i turned her down (even when i was just flat out hammered and in the mood) because i’d never take advantage of her like that. guy best friends being trouble, i think they’re more trouble for a girl’s boyfriend that the girl herself. i’ve very rarely reciprocated the feelings but i do understand why this happens. you’re best friend may not always have a crush on you. now he's dating this girl, she's posting obnoxious "i love you" mush on his facebook wall, and i can't stop kicking myself. it works for u guys and u get to gether without ruining ur friendship hope my advice helps;). because life experience is paying off big time in that i’m not possessive or insecure where he is concerned.” if there are more and more people engaging in these platonic opposite-sex friendships, it sounds like the world is evolving and you are the one trying to mess with it. but if either of you two aren’t, then it will most likely lead to problems. being said, if we were both single, it wouldn’t surprise me if something did happen, but as he and i are both straight and in such a great, close, platonic relationship, i sincerely doubt that having a guy best friend is trouble. it just really hurt for her to constantly lie about it as if it’s her right. but i’ve liked girls who have liked other guys in the past and it’s just a way to find yourself hurting a lot. if she tells me that i might need to just ask he out anyway, tell her i want to spend time with her. he is very dear to me, truly the best friend i have ever had and i would not give him up for the world. what’s worse, some guys may just assume you’re already in a relationship with this guy and avoid even bothering to hit on you. i am a girl but i like hanging with the boys and this kid has even called me a bro. the only time theyve ever been a “problem” was when i was dating a very insecure guy. this kind of stuff doesn’t even happen as often as you think it does. i’m living that right now-we’ve known each other for about 8 1/2 years. i refuse to stoop to manipulation tactics, like wearing sexy clothing around him. to break this by having sex with the guy until she is threatened by the. i just want to know if i should confront him or just let it go and not worry about it. because he thought i wasn’t interested, though i was, he asked out one of my best friends that was flirting with him. i was hoping to get tips on how to successfully remain platonic friends with all of your guy friends. it’s weird to me, considering i have successfully “friend zoned” so many times before. if a guy makes comments about your partner or relationship when you’re happy, let that guy go! we’re a society that really downplays the complexity of male emotions and in my experience guys do have emotions and feelings — they just display them differently..Anyhoo we were friends so loong but ive never really hanged out with his friends or he my friends . i’m really happy with her but i can’t help but feel that this might happen with another guy, that she might develop feelings for someone else. had a guy best friend and yes, they are nothing but trouble. and being honest has never hurt my friendship with any of them, and i’ve told all three of them negative things about a boyfriend of theirs at one point or another (i recall saying one was an ass, one a douche, and another a piece of shit). i doubt that guy gets upset when i am around. friendship can bloom over time because both of you aren’t sexually attracted to each other. can’t remember who said it but he hit the nail on the head, a female would say he’s my best friend but rearly do i hear guys say the same thing, men are men period, yes women who find there best friend attractive but there’s no sexual chemistry means, the guy is in the friend-zone.: 60 get to know you questions for a new romance - lovepanky(). but besides the fact that he’s taken, my family hates him and he’s two years older than me. the person i can always count on to be there for me. if only one thinks so it will be misery for that person. the only true part in your article is that the boyfriend. we broke up for a short while on unrelated issues and poof, she was hanging out with him once again, just as friends. ummmm…it didn’t quite work out that way for us.
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i though we were starting to move toward dating again, then came my birthday. we became really good friends and then we decided to date. guy best friends are only an issue when the friendship isnt mutual…if they want in your pants of course its an issue, but thats not the case with me and my guys. they’ll flirt and be innapropriate while women will ignore it due to the need for attention. best friends are people who feel comfortable cuddling under a blanket while watching a movie, or they’re two people who can just hug for a long time without realizing they’ve got sexual body parts pressed against each other. i really want to tell him, but i don’t want to put him in that position. read this because i was really curious about the opinion of the author on this subject. “no guy can ever have a happy and insecurity-free relationship with a.. how many platonic girl/guy friends have you developed feelings for? i’ve had a lot of guy friends, and somehow or the other, i find out at some point that they’ve had a crush on me. 2, so i felt bad for possibly getting her hopes up, but we talked about it and we were both completely on the same page.. uh oh, the stars have aligned and your numbers are right” hahah! he would email her for friendly conversation and always end it with i love you. i stopped being in love with him and i was worried about his well-being(he’s bipolar and has major depression), and i told my female bestie about it and she didn’t bother understanding what my ex’s deal was and instead bad talked him, so when i complained to two of my guy best friends, not only did they understand what he was going through for me to better understand how i can ease the whole situation, but they also just comforted me, you know? it is all about the level of respect you have for the relationship. “do you really want to mess with evolution’s master plan of bringing a man and a woman closer only for sex? they both live too far from work so they park at work. the only way it works is if the guy is gay, has someone hotter than you already, or he’s not attracted to you at all. if somebody has problems that a guy is a girls platonic friend, then he has issues that he needs to personally deal with before the girl even should get in a relationship with him..How to be just friends with a guy when he wants more. it hurts me because she’s talking and standing with him. it is insane, we literally can’t live with each other as a couple or without each other as friends, and cant be just friends. or maybe it’s because i make it clear that our friendship is truly important to me and that i’m not going to terminate it because of any extra feelings that i have. my best friend is 100% supportive of everything i do and when my boyfriend and i need our space, he gives it to us. what i have been doing is, well, staying his friend. regular phone calls, texts, arguments, visits, etc…the whole nine yards…well, except for sex and other physical coupl-ish stuff. that we have both crossed the line to romance in our conversations, the friendship is already notably strained. i don’t wish anyone ill, i’ve apologized profusely, and this has never happened to either of us before and i will make sure it never does again. out of blue, two weeks later, he says to me, “i passed right by her and didn’t even speak. everyone found out about it because we were all friends and i sort of lost my credibility for a while. now it’s not necessary for either of you to reveal any secret attractions to the other person, but when love enters a friendship, could there ever be an easy transition into love unless it’s mutual? either way, i haven’t had a problem with maintaining any of these friendships. however, in the past 12/15 months we strated chatting online (we’re both married have kids etc… he’s marriage was on the rocks). or did he just pull away because we had no future together? i noticed how some girls here were talking about the benefits of a male best friend, such as being able to turn to him when upset, sharing relationship details, and getting his advice and help with problems in their lives – well i’m sorry but if you don’t go to your boyfriend for that stuff then you are only in half a relationship. it wasn’t like we were in a physical relationship that we had a hold over each other? when that same dude flirts with you… despite the fact that he already has a girlfriend. it’s hard to explain what this demographic is – the masculine female – but not overtly masculine (video games, sports, you name it). best guy friend who you secretly love starts dating someone else: the dos and don'ts of what to do nextby john ortvedjuly 28, 2011 1:15 pmthe most insightful segment of dawson's creek might have been that part which dealt with best friends falling in love with each other, at different times, as happened to this reader:pinterestfacebook*about a year ago, i moved back to my hometown from a couple years living far away. each time a guy does that with any girl, especially if hands are in close proximity to any of your girly parts or his boy parts, it’s hard not to have an erection. the other side to it is based on how we met and how our relationship started. she basically just said: my guy friend is more important to me and always will be, so take second place buddy! me make this straight, guys and girls can be friends, true. have a big group of guy friends, they all are my closest friends and i love them very much. do men really have to be so insecure about it really? we don’t even go out together and i still can’t seem to meet anyone.: i’ve never dated anyone i was friends with, then had it blossom into a relationship like a monica-chandler-type thing. but recently when i was dating this guy, he’s been acting strange. out of no where, he asked me “have you ever thought of us dating,” and i was shocked that he said that. guy and girls sure can be best friends but its really naive if one think you can be best friends for life cause eventually someday sooner or later either of you is going to start feeling the other way and then there is no coming back. in my opinion, these type women do not make good girlfriends or wives. in: boards, discusstags: crush has a girlfriend, dating advice, my crush. with these girls i’d listen to them complain about their boyfriends but i never took sides. perfect but if i got out with him if they break up then she’ll probably hate me for the rest if my life. the problem with modern day society is that most guys only see girls as a good pair of tits which to me is a shame because there is so much more to a girl than just that and this is coming from a 100% straight male. may have wanted a best friend to begin with, but as the relationship grows and he finds himself getting attention from many other women, you’ll start desiring him a lot more, and yes, in ways that are more intense than just friends. you can confront him of what you really feel, i swear it would make you feel better. truth is that i think an affair would be easy, but i gave him my heart (as a trusted friend) years ago, and losing his friendship will be as devastating as anything i’ve ever experienced. listen to a woman when it comes to this topic. i think anytime you have a best friend of the opposite sex you either consciously or subconsciously measure other males or females to them. articles should always be prefaced with “i” am not mature enough to sustain a relationship with somebody of the opposite sex. i was very suspicious because he called one day while we were in her car then his number popped up from her bluetooth. she knows this even though i’ve never spoken to her about it. a guy who is in a relationship should never flirt with anyone. hate to say it but i have to agree with this article, although just because there’s an attraction to a lady friend doesn’t necessarily mean he’s spending his time plotting how to pursue that attraction.[…] thing i am really adamant about is best friends of the opposite sex., this particular straight guy i went to high school with. and i play video games, i like hanging out on the couch and playing them with or without friends and , honestly, i always preferred the company of my guy friends better than any of my female friends.