My ex boyfriend is already dating someone else

if anything it would only serve to strengthen their bond. i have moved to another state, new job, with a fresh start and a new lease on life and lovin it and myself to life!@tobevisible you will hurt your kids deeply by staying in this situation. yes, it is true that you were used, but this is not a reflection on you. he wants his cake and eat it, he probably has other women on the side and possibly a totally different life to the one that you know about. then out of the blue he sent me a text saying, “i changed my mind, i am moving on and think you should too. when women stay in the relationship and accept these things, they are teaching their kids that this horrible abuse and dysfunction is what relationships are about, and it’s not even close to the truth. i had an express relationship encounter with this sociopath and he was soo mean and hurtful..why is he with her when it’s blatantly obvious that she is nothing close to being the high value woman that i try so hard to be? and that was how a 2 year relationship ended with a man i lived with (with his kid), whom i was looking at wedding rings with and discussing getting married…with a text message. i wear them all the time, they make me look good, etc, but when they rip or don’t fit, or whatever, i discard them and go buy a new pair that now have my total attention. one day after the break up he turned to his past, slept with her, was back on the single dating app life as if our relationship mattered none at all. sad to admit, yet after all this i still wonder if he is happier with this new girl…and sad he left me. but when i think of the life my abusive-ex and his new girlfriend will have together, i just see hurt. he said he was scared of commitment and he ddnt want to waste my time because he doesn’t think he would ever get married. you pray for this man's return, but this man does not love you, and god not answering the prayer of returning him to you is a god that is loving you and protecting you from a life of pain. sometime i just wonder why he even comes at me with the same old craziness, knowing i am not buying one word. hear that he/she is in ‘love’ and is like a different person. was married to a narcissist for a year, we were together for 5 years. we lived together for 1 of those two years with his 6 year old daughter. well done you for telling him and his sorry ass to go to hell. like a roof over their head, sex, money, social status, appearance to the outside world, anything really that they feel that they need – and that they feel you (or whoever is the victim) can provide.. "don't cave into the pressure to let go and move on. there will never be a time when it's "nice" to see my abusive-ex and his new girlfriend, even if it's in a photo.

My ex is dating again and it hurts

a woman i know has an aspd and she tried to explain they are motivated by what they need and they are “creating their own reality. it is most likely that the sociopath will tell you how happy he/she now is and to ‘thank you’. he prefers his single life but likes that we are still there for him when he needs us. am currently in the midst of separation and going no contact with my ex husband of 27years. not two weeks later he messaged me on a dating site, told me he was looking for me and tried to engage me in conversation. it took me five years to see it but there are more than enough women interested in me. i finaly broke things off and told him flat out in the discrd phase “you are a sociopath, you have no remorse or guilt for the things you do and how you manipulate people. ex hasn’t changed for someone else, because they can’t. i promise you, if your children witness you make the choice to love yourself and take them into a new life where people love and respect each other, it’s the most beautiful gift you can give them! what you look like and your values, matter very little, unless of course he can manipulate you. this time he/she is seducing someone else, just as he/she once seduced you. i wonder when i will get over all of this.’s good to pretend you are not too bothered, that provokes a sociopath to do the opposite, they always do the thing you don’t want. there's no website dedicated to assisting us in our pursuit to encourage other women to leave long before we had the chance to. an explanation, even, for why he controlled and humiliated me for so long. we even lived together for about 3 months when his home was being renovated. he was an abuser and i’m very sure now, a very disordered individual. ironically, the fact that he messaged me gave me some closure because now i know he’s on a dating site! and its just he chased me for years how can things change for him in a few weeks. why would someone do this to someone who is so good to them. i kept asking for him to prove himself and prove he is deserving of a chance and he would manipulative tell me “let’s just start fresh”. ex broke up with me in our aniversary said he wanted to focus on himself than 2 days later he was with someome else its been almost 2 months and they still together i am focusing on me but its hard not to think of how bad he hurt me 18 months and he trew me away like i was nothing after everything i did for him .! i’m so angry at myself for allowing this to happen to me. picked at that happiness until she is mental and physically exhausted.

My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts

strangest thing is that they credit you for improving them, do say “you deserve to be happy” or “i miss you” whilst remodelling the new target. well for one week we were talking like normal again, and i was under the impression we were on the road to getting back on track. ex left me a year ago after five years together. we were only together for a month but the betray on my trust has been so damaging on top of what my year has been after ending a 3 year relationship with a narcissist. you are truly an angel for this blog, article, and response. while i was driving to work he texted me that he’s been talking to someone for the past 2 months and that he likes her a lot. when they discard you they have already hooked up with the next victim. i think he jumped into this asap cos he had lost his source of sex and energy supply (ie me). this person is someone that you shared your life with, and no doubt your finances too. i have started abuse counselling now and will get through this. it won’t last and they won’t be eternally happy.%d bloggers like this:It can be quite crushing, when the man that you are in love with turns out to be nothing but a compulsive pathological liar. focus on doing things that make you and the kids happy. i am seriously at a point where i actually feel sorry for him because that is just how pathetic he is., huffpost divorce readers share their best advice for moving on when your ex has left you for someone else. you have something they need and it will benefit them, they will love bomb, idealize, and future fake your life until they drain you dry. your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. the hardest thing for people on the outside to understand is that there is no timeline for getting through this. has not suddenly turned into a person who he/she always promised you would be. it was like a slap in the face, only the slap hurts even more than the ones you knew before. i had visions of her sitting in the back of his station wagon, watching him surf like i used to. now he is committed to this new girl…he hasn’t out reached which i admit (albiet, i was deserving of it). was just discarded by my boyfriend of 4 years who said he wanted to focus on himself…now, less than two weeks later, it seems he has a new girl which is part of what led me to realize he is a sociopath. i know that this hurts, but you are looking at the situation forgetting that your ex is a sociopath.

My ex is dating and it hurts

i know i shouldn’t compare myself to this new girl, but it is kind of hard not to. a god that loves you and cherishes you wants you and your children to be loved and cherished by the people in your lives! insert kick to the stomach which i shouldn’t feel because i knew his words were false, but a part of me was naive to believe maybe he wasn’t lying about wanting a part of me? anyway i found out he was having her come to visit him and having a relationship with her. it feels bad enough getting treated like this by someone you love (and thought loved you), but even worse to feel like a fool for trying to work things out with a man who doesn’t respect or appreciate you. live the life you've always wanted -- the one you may have put on the back-burner for your ex.” we are no longer together or trying to reconcile… god cloed the door and is making sure it stays closed…. he was my first boyfriend, and i'd been entirely besotted. he/she is a person who does not live by the norms of others. it is hard at first, but take it from me -- it gets better. he said he doesn’t know whether he wants to be ina relationship with her either a bit like what he did to me. he won his appeal and was released in march on bond of this year, he came home, but said he had to go with her temporarily because she was going to pay his bond,10,000 dollars. he said he loved me but he had to do this for his freedom. it has been a few months now so i can see a little more clearly as my shock wears off…it seems he became bored of me once the monotony of daily life kicked in and the ‘party/hot phase’ ended. it makes sense, his attachment to me was so shallow and superficial no wonder he could just walk away after 6 months… he was probably already trying on “new jeans. my guess is that he is trying to keep you on the back burner just in case. he said “it is going to last, it is serious, we can’t speak out of respect to her”. empathetic people are almost non-existent it seems and the world seems cold. word of this is true, it’s unbelievable the way they follow such an identical pattern of behaviour. the thoughts in your mind, can feel soul destroying and the pain unbearable. can feel shattering when you realise that this person has now moved on, and met someone new. is now happening, is that the sociopath has regained composure, put back on a new mask, and is now playing the game again. they are highly manipulative and deceptive and love to con and dupe people to get what they want. someone hurt you so much, over such a long time, you don't even consider their next love.

My ex is dating someone else already

because one thing is for sure, that the sociopath is one personality type who can never change. he has had an on/off affair with a woman we have both known since she was a child. the most beautiful and loving thing you can do for your children is choose to learn to love yourself, stop giving him the power in the situation, and you make the decision to start untangling from the pain. i talked to him one time since this went down where he thanked me for our time together, told me this new girl is a better match for him, and told me he wants me to move on because i deserve to be happy./she is now everything that they pretended they were in the beginning for you (yes i know that this hurts, but hear me out). you can’t control his actions but you can control how you respond to his actions. moved on to someone new, told me his life had “changed completely,” so i said fine – i don’t compete with other women for a man’s attention. remember in the beginning, how he/she also pretended to be perfection and how you were sucked in? years and didn’t need closure from me but kept “asking for me back” but didn’t want to put in the work. thousands and thousands of people like you are having the exact same heartbreak. only this time to someone else and not you, remember the drill. thoughts on what to do when it’s your separated husband. i told him i hate people who lie to me and that is why i am broken, and he ended things with me by accusing me of lying and cheating on him. will i ever heal if i’m in love with him and want to reconcile but we are living according to his rules? it won’t change a thing-no matter what i say or do. it feels when your abusive ex starts dating someone new. look at it this way: they did you a favor. much love to you, try to stay strong and make your own closure, something i am trying so hard to do.” – spoken like the true energy sucking parasite that he is. who knows maybe she is a bigger psycho screw-up than he is and she will kick his arse. she looks like she could be very much like him – they both seem to be surrounded by this cloud of blackness. long story short, his bond was revoked, not because he violated, and he is awaiting a hearing from the court but he is still with her he says she is handling everything with his attorneys. he will forever be the loser that he is, all the days of his life . he was my first partner and i wasn’t his by a landslide.

My ex is dating someone else and it hurts

is it not possible that he really is a different person? so i shouldn’t have jealousy, but i do have a little. once i am done with him he shuts down for some days, even weeks sometimes and he always pops back up like some sick jack in the box. they will drop back to you randomly or when the new partner is destroyed. it's an entirely different feeling when an ex who abused you finds love again. i have no idea how to be mean and cut all ties. turned the idea of reaching out to her over in my mind, but I couldn't do it. i think he is vibrating at such a low level now that he has brought this person to him. i still don’t understand the whole discard thing completely – the whys of it – but i don’t feel that he’s suddenly gotten his shit together either. i have been really unwell with all the abuse that he has put me through particularly over the last couple of years having her in tow. i am christian and praying for his healing and return though. he started seeig someone else two months later according to what he said. they made the choice to leave you for someone else. when you realise that you have been used by someone that you gave everything to.😉 i hope all those out there who are hurting will soon come to realize that a sociopath is weak , they are really weak individuals. tell him you don’t like what he is doing. he is in control, he is making the rules, and you are unhappy. i am sorry to hear things didn’t work out with him. that i was the first and last to bear his wrath. will never disappear from your life, indifference is the way forward, this indifference confuses them it’s a loss of control (self control). i don’t want to cut contact with him because i don’t want to hurt the kids. but the "today is a new day" bullshit only remains motivating for so long. it will be a matter of time before the mask slips (if it hasn’t already) and she starts to go through what i went through. he started acting very moody and was snapping at me a lot.

My ex girlfriend is already dating someone else

i constantly gave and gave and he ruined us because he kept out reaching to his past. he never cared about me and that he met someone else and thathe can’t provide what i need. i turned the idea of reaching out to her over in my mind, but i couldn't bring myself do it. then one day his laptop was open and i looked at his text messages. growing up i was the child in this kind of relationship and the most damaging thing my mama did was stay with him and accept these things. now, i heard he is dating someone new and he flaunts her everywhere. you need to remember that they are psychological illusionists, nothing is really real! he tells me to divorce if i want to but he is fine separated. was with a really aggressive guy for over 6 years and we have always had a dysfunctional realtionship. will ask the following questions, and at worst, this will play on your mind, and you can spend hours, days, and sometimes weeks or months, torturing yourself with the following questions about his/her new partner and the life he is living without you:What does he/she have that i do not? my ex bf broke up with me about 18 months ago. it probably won’t be until the new year as i am taking some time to figure the direction and build up some banked content for my blog. mourn the loss of him and your marriage, then go forward. did this for months while taking out other girls yet claiming to want a future and a marriage with me. i told him not to come back to me if it doesn’t work out and he proudly exclaimed how he never will and laughed smugly. who knows how it will in the end, but i trust that god will work it all for my good and to my advantage. i will be writing a blog about my experience and i would love to cite your page as a source that has given me a lot of understanding and has helped me realize i am not the problem and to not victimize myself but to feel compassion for him that he is so broken." or "how to start feeling like yourself again" there were absolutely zero resources on how to deal with this situation. is it not possible that he is really turning into a standup guy? instead he dragged it on a couple months and when i asked him again. i don’t want to be on bad terms bit i feel i must sacrifice to keep everyone happy. i thought the man had finally come to his senses. we got divorced and then he wanted to get back together 3 months later be ause he “never stopped loving me” i too am a christian and prayed… ” dear heavenly father, only you know our hearts… if they are pure and true, please reconcile us to be the family you called us to be…. disturbing to be jealous of someone who ripped your life apart.

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the fact that someone left you doesn't mean you're not worthy of love. no matter what happens in your life, you should never abandon yourself.’m going through this myself… mindgames got worse when i started to put my foot down… i guess duped is a good way to describe it, although i wonder why its so hard not to feel hurt and i yearn for something i’ll never get: an explanation, respect. i am trying to not be bitter but i feel pretty disoriented by all of this. he got fed up i assumed, flipped it on me and now is in a new relationship…two weeks after asking to start fresh. has recreated an identical relationship taking his new target to the same places as i took him, at the same time sending me our “romantic” photographs. yet, the man i loved left me and now is showing off his new girlfriend and it crushes me every time i hear about it. im so heartbroken and i dont know how i can recover from this. most likely he/she will be back in touch, so be grateful for this space, to concentrate on you. he would try to msg me and come to my window. but, just as his/her history is chequered with carnage, the same thing will happen again. like he is, otherwise he wouldn’t be emailing you. no longer is he the lonely, guilty man you thought he was. i was still thinking of giving him a chance…when he came back and said he just wanted to remain friends. meanwhile, he was the one who broke us for his past while i was faithful, giving, forgiving, did everything for him and then some. he left me and the kids but refuses to divorce. he/she is now being this ‘perfect man/woman’ that he/she said would be with me, why now – why was i not good enough?. "whatever you do, don't try to get your ex back. when you give them nothing, this really is annoying for them. or he claims to you that he is happy now and is finally being a better guy. believe me, you may have to 'fake it till you make it' at the start, but now i''m quite possibly the happiest i've ever been in my life. made me laugh as there was a picture of her – a close up of her head and neck and he wrote underneath it “can i sink my teeth in? our lives were totally intertwined and then one day he just started acting strange and it all exploded. you for this blog, i have been dealing with this for a year now, 10 years ago i met a man who had just been released from prison, younger than me, it was instant , i felt he was the love of my life, he committed another crime and after living together for 2 years we incarcerated again, sentenced to 15 years.

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while educating myself on psychopaths it is a behaviour that all victims of this kind of abuse seem to display. go live life and spread happiness 🙂 you deserve it and he deserves to rot in his own…. how is it fair he is over me and moved on and belittling me while i feel at a standstill over someone who doesn’t even deserve this energy…. i he’ll be so mad because he can’t win with me he will start calling me names, he tries to hurt my feelings, put me down etc. to build us up creates us wanting them and loving them more. i angrily messaged him after my closure email (as he decided to go ghost instead of giving me a proper closure face to face as he had given his past and never me…) he belittled me told me to move on, its unhealthy, hopes i find happiness eventually. if god has my “real” husband out here in the near future i know he will remove that counterfeit for good, i probably won’t have to do much. not just sometimes, but all the time, as this is the way that they are. i broke up with him as he pu in no effort, never drove to see me, never took me out and kept pushing me away leading me to believe he didn’t care. he said he ddnt want to be in a relationship again and now he is dating someone. i was never allowed to visit him during the 8 years because i was a former employee. to move on after being cheated on affair recovery how to let go moving on after divorce how to move on if he left you for someone else. there was correspondence with an un-programmed number in which the word ‘babe’ and ‘meeting up’ and ‘send me a picture’ were involved. i’m not an expert but from what i understand and have experienced, they don’t start and end things. push their limits and if you don’t have barriers, they walk all over you and they don’t like weak and needy. this is nothing to do with how inadequate you are. it infuriated me but deep down i felt happy for him. anger and frustration can fester and in the end it only hurts you. he's fully capable of loving in ways others deserve to be loved—even if it means having to witness their sun-bleached life together online. he is now dating a girl who takes selfies of herself in her underwear and posts them on her public (non-private) social media accounts. i regret trying so hard to work it out with him in the end after how he was treating me. he said he was using her for financial purposes and to have visits. is an odd spooky experience, his friends must know but we the girlfriends take him at face value not knowing the repition & duplication of romantic gestures and gifts. only thing harder than getting through the emotional roller coaster that is divorce?

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its odd though as she herself looks dark and demonic like him. it is my desire that he repents and we save our marriage and family. thoughts on “don’t feel jealous when he moves onto someone new! once we get on that plane or burn those photographs, they no longer exist. we lived in my house, in which i changed my spare room into his daughter’s princess room. one minute his obssed with me the next he just tells me we are just friends and it’s not going anywhere i’m already in love with him and i have told him but nothing is happening (his recently started to date this other girl) we had dinner last week..I found out last night that the vamp is in a new relationship. my life was a lie and i’m trying to find acceptance on this xxx. what they ‘need’ can be anything that they feel is missing in their life. will tell you how happy they are now, and that they are sorry that they didn’t do this whilst they were with you. they discard, but they may come back briefly just in case they need your energy some more. i feel exactly as sherrie johnson feels above and this reponse is like water in a desert to me. When you realise that you have been used by someone that you gave everything to. and i’m still questioning whether or not he is a sociopath? it’s hard when you can’t believe a word he is saying. just read this and i can’t actually believe how it could have been me writing this. am so grateful to have found your website and find all the answers i need after having been victim to a sociopath. i truly want to reconcile but he refuses to repent abd change his ways. because he can find another vic and start gaming her, but try to keep me in bondage to the divorce, just for control purposes only. he can text and email and i may respond to one here and there, but i put that foul spirit in check. illustrations by the authorof the myriad of resources for those who've experienced abuse, most describe survivors, unintentionally, as blank canvases. can he/she do it for her/him and not for me? seriously i give that devil the beat down with the truth! if i have any advice to give at this moment to other women going through something similar, it is to hold your respect for yourself high (much higher than i did) and stay strong.

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i confronted him and he said it was a wrong number and he just played along with it even though he knows it was wrong. there is no closure, you so you don’t know what is going on. i have cut contact with him, but i feel like i should warn the new girl! i’m very hurt because i can see we hang out less and less now which means his spending time with her her but i know deep down the best thing to do is to just cut him. he said to me that she makes him feel amazing and that he’s so happy with his life. i know that my life will be so much better without him but i spend so many hours ruminating over their affair and i truly believe he is addicted to her. don’t lose another minute of sleep or happiness over the evilness and cruelty that thrives in him. of course while we lived together i saw what i know now are red flags but ignored them because of the constant affection and the amazing way he made me feel. i figured he’d moved on to his new, fulfilled happy life. my impression but what you said so far is that he doesn’t want lose control of you. your ex hasn’t suddenly turned into an amazing person. i gave him another shot in a moment of weakness and 1 yr later asked him to define the realtionship. you had hopes and dreams, none of which came true.  lord i only want what you give, if you have worked on steves heart and change his heart towards andrew and myself, let him show it and make it clear this is what you want…  i am scared and i have lost my trust in steve…i don’t ever want to go back to what i just came from…. i had him blocked and then i lapsed to express my need of closure.. "i'm a firm believer that living well is the best revenge. weird thing is that she’s quite rough around the edges and not what i thought he would go for at all. it's easier to assume that they are incapable of it. i just hope he finds another source and will want to marry her. kind of reaction you are giving to his actions will be more of what he needs for survival. they only thing i’ll get which i know to be true… is hurt and mind games. anyways, we were talking about getting married and all that usual ‘good stuff. but it's as if the internet raised its hands, and sighed that we are meant to believe that our abusers just disappear: like a poof of angry smoke. always felt guilt and remourse for others and not me.

My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts

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can be quite crushing, when the man that you are in love with turns out to be nothing but a compulsive pathological liar. you are a christian, do you believe that a god that loves you and cherishes you and your children wants this life for you? the break up menthaly demage me because i cant trust anyone and the sould tie its really strong but i know its for the best and the problem is him not me. and when you become stronger and ready you might be surprised to find out there are plenty of nice man in this world. to be grateful, that the abuse of you has stopped, that he/ she has a new source of supply to use, for as long as it lasts. he then in an angry rage he told me he was breaking up with me. after 8 years of him being on prison, he met a girl on a dating site, yes while in prison. only thing harder than getting through the emotional roller coaster that is divorce?” my comment to him was not for him but to myself to explicitly let it be known that i am okay and it is okay to let him go. source of supply, is a source that they do not have, that you have (or perceived to have) therefore they use you (or someone else) as a source to get what they want. like i had begged during us why he was hung up on his past, messaging her through out os even explaining he would break up with me for her…he constantly was out reaching the past during us. it's because when i think of my first boyfriend i remember two people doting on one another with respect—regardless of the relationship reaching its inevitable expiration date. abusive exes go out for breakfast, update their statuses, and have permission to fall in love again. that in our time together, i collected all of his anger in my hands, and there's simply nothing left to douse her with. i just have this intense pain thinking that he has turned into a good man. they can put on another mask and pretend again for a while, but this is all, this is all that is happening..Losing control over you will cause the sociopath to lose control over themselves (and then anything is possible). sure if this is narcisstic or sociopath, but sounds like he is keeping a lot of supply.! he be beside himself, i mean literally done with me. and it's not because i wish it was me with him grinning, full tourist, outside some buddhist temple. when i went no contact he hoovered me back saying how much he loved me and missed me. im so confused because we’ve been practically living together for this past year. she is like a size zero stick figure that over-tans and makes the ‘duck face’ in her half naked photos. was scrolling through instagram when i came across a photo of my first boyfriend with a new partner.

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are common questions that are asked and felt by people who have been involved with a sociopath, once the sociopath has moved on to someone new.. take that control back and let it catapult you forward into all greatness. it’s painfull but i’m happy and hope that it lasts between them so that he might give me my divorce. when 2 days later i see a post on his instagram of him with the girl i questioned him about being his gf showing up from costa rica to meet him for the first time. however he removes this monster, that demon spawn from out of my life is ok with me. so, in a sense, my ex-sociopath regarded me like i regard a pair of jeans that i love. he is my family even though his actions are wrong. these people can rob you of your sanity for the one, precious, priceless wonderful life you should be able to safely enjoy. it's a peculiar feeling when an old love finds new love. and for the love of all that's good and holy, do not poke around their facebook page. best advice for moving on when your ex left you for someone else. i can only ensure the kids see him if make it easy for him to visit them. turned the idea of reaching out to her over in my mind, but i couldn't do it.. "embrace all the little things you love but your ex never cared about. she’s still around and he goes to visit her all the time in her hometown. yes i make it super easy for him to visit as he pleases. your kids are watching how he treats you and developing heartbreaking belief systems about what “love” is. you have to do this alone for a while, so hold off on that new relationship. i am just moving foward while god is working behind the scenes doing what only he can do. then he will want to go run and get the divorce himself. enjoy sleeping in the middle of the bed and eating at the restaurants your ex didn't like. i hope for all of us here reading this, we can know from here on out, dont invest your emotional health in emotionaly warped and damaged people. This person is someone that you shared your life with, and no doubt your finances too. why doesn’t he just move on and i totally get that whole, “need for closure”.

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see a counselor and work through your issues with them. look back at everything you went through with this person, and now they are telling you how they are now mr/mrs perfect, mr/mrs reliable – he/she is now everything that they pretended they were in the beginning for you. may be unrealistic, but i hope the abuse stopped with me. ya, i was that dumb girl still holding on and trying to work things out. however i truly believe if it is not gods will that my husband will divorce me. let your ex see how happy you are without them. so he would have already told her that he left you as you were crazy and how he tried to help you. im trying to divorce him, but he keeps stalling it, and all of a sudden it went quiet and i found out he has someone new. gossip gets around and it will come back to haunt you. they will have someone else lined up before they discard you. i regret it and unfortunately i have to live with that plus the rage i have for him.!They love to confuse you, this is the name of their game. so he has done no processing of the last 16 months we had together and is carrying so much anger and hatred straight into a new relationship. as this could go on for a long time if you don’t take action. email will not be used for any purposes only to send email for posts (even i do not keep record of it). is power play, holding it back, dragging it out or the sudden willingness is all designed to inconvience your peace. but he always cared what he had done to his past. eventually i learned a few important things, though: i made mistakes in the marriage, too, including communicating poorly. i know if i warn her he will just spread lies about me to her, but i wish i had taken the warning from his ex when we started dating seriously! mixture of ‘i want you back’ ‘i’ve changed’ ‘i hate you’ ‘i love you’ are all to provoke reactions, do not react immediately, respond in brief polite scentences wihich demonstrate indifference. the next morning he was acting weird as he left for work. he has always said from the beginning that he was not over his ex girlfriend but would say how much he liked me and how when we are out in public it really makes him feel uncomfortable for other men to admire me. luring you back when you are happy, just because…… it’s all about winning and being in control. she has bought him a car, fixed his credit,opened a business in both of their names, sends him money, bought him all kinds of clothes, got him a dog and a 1400 dollar book to study law when he comes home, oh and opened up a joint bank account for them.

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