Online dating advice for men over 30
.i too am grossed out but only by older men your age…the younger men are much better looking…. men sperm breaks down triple the rate by the time they are 40 while women may have less eggs, but they have the same eggs at 20 that they will have at 40. those liberal feminist shallow and superficial women believing that they are so worthy and unique. am sorry, i know it’s not fun being held to standards men held women to since the dawn of time, but your age matters.’ve seen women here make the same claim for women..there are married men who are living from one pay check to the next…in life you dont always get what you want…. women from these cultures are beautiful and raised to view age differently than in america. do women in their 30s not want to date men in their 40s? men can physically and biologically father children right up into their 60s or 70s. men want to believe that they are 100% perfect sexual mates until old age when it’s not true. i am 40 and have known i was clinically infertile since i was 35. he’s more upset about how older men past 40 are viewed , not women past 40. having just turned 50, i have been actively dating for the last four years (using a lot of evan’s advice, of course) and have dated men 12-15 years on either side of me, but not so many my own age. just because women now want to marry a guy several years younger, you think all of us men just have to toe the line and marry older women? media often pairs much younger women with older men, which is why so many older men have a problem with younger women not wanting them. complain about older men bad mouthing older women, but i’ve seen plenty of bad mouthing of older men. i know for many men this is a non-starter, including myself (43). most women i have worked with always wanted to work with us men. now at 40, young men see me as confident, intelligent, sexy, well-spoken, & self-assured. any advice on how to navigate these new paradigms in the dating world? he’s head of government; her family is very blue collar. as much as i would like to have children, if i don’t have one by the time i turn 40, i accept that it’s not meant to happen. biology did not create a system where older men where the prime sexual partners. many sites encourage you to say what you’re searching for, and while some women in their mid-30’s might have their initial interest peaked by what he has to offer, they’re not sure where they stand on such an issue and so they pass. your problem is that end of the day you don’t really like women..Just like the women with 4 kids who sometimes write…”i have time for relationship” i just laugh and say sure you do….(women 32 and older increased their chances of giving birth to a down syndrome child each year passed this age. only study that i am aware of that mentions these risks is from iceland where people are very closely genetically related (their family lineage goes back to the viking era). i would have never told you this 10 years ago when i was hittin it and quittin it with 30 something women. over 40 can include father’s in the 50s, 60s, and 70s as well, so it’s not conclusive that is 40 is two-thirds more likely to have daughter than a 20 year old. seems to contradict what you’ve previously said — that american women don’t want you and your friends because you aren’t the 5-6% and that’s why you go overseas. that work going to grad school only to find out that men who have had their careers don’t give a flying youknowwhat about that in their mates. i’ll be 40 in a half dozen years, and i’m in great shape. you’re missing is that what you want has absolutely no relation to what women want. i thank evan for his advice and insight, his reading recommendations, and his encouragement through this process! stop getting caught up in the fertility factor, as infertility is quite common among all ages of men and women. and women should be aware of the risks of having children with older men. said, because i am not interested in just casual sex and casual relationships, i am not very attracted to much younger men. i was in my 20s, i wouldn’t have considered dating a 40-soemthing man without puking first 40s is old. the women here do not exist to be your sounding board in discrediting women’s worth so you can feel better about the women who have rejected you in real life. think the real retards are the women writing these posts. and the “cougar phenomena” is if i may be blunt is b******t ! no i am not at the hight of my career and no i haven’t traveled but that is what my retirement is for. the way, since when should i or other men be more concerned about foreign women taking everything when american women have made an industry of it in the united states? age impacts male fertility has only really been studied in the past 15 years, several studies have found older men typically take much longer to get even very young women pregnant. stay off the online dating sites, theirs nothing there but liars and snobby woman who are not confident enough for the most part to get a man on their own in the real world. but noooo, men are still studs because they can still shoot sperm past a certain age, right? i looked through some profiles recently for both men and women. you’re missing is that what you want has absolutely no relation to what women want. i am a 30 year old woman and i can tell you from experience… all the men that court me are womb diggers. so as an attractive 38 year old, i am able to attract young men, and prefer their vibrancy. lying about age, place of residence, employment, smoking habits, relationship intentions is the new normal. we are very close and all are married (except for me, the divorce and hopefully soon the annulment so i can start with a clean slate) and our spouses and children are truly wonderful. women who are of childbearing age aren’t looking to have that child with someone close to there dad’s age. one was in his late 40s, and one was in his late 30s. they are much more open to marrying older successful men. think you ladies need to stop with the propaganda that the choices of men out there are so poor, but then you seem to think that the women are worthy? the women here are looking to find love with good men who honor, respect and care about women. this gives men time to court, fall in love, travel together, move in, get engaged, and enjoy a few years of childless marriage before starting a family.
Online dating for men over 40
they have a lot of dating options, they’re building their careers, and there isn’t a clear urgency to settle down. the vast majority of women over 40 are not beauty queens by any stretch of the imagination. you should open up to men you’ve never considered before. is also -no- western fabrication that says older women are more valuable than younger women, it is the opposite. everything was great and just what i thought a marriage could be, sure we had our arguments and disagreements but we always were able to come to an understanding, a mutual compromise, and making up was always the best. if your trying to start a family in your 40s with hopes of kids you would be a womb digger. i did that as an experiment (just to see what would happen) and got nothing but positive responses from it. also, seemed to work in the other way to, his speech would get heavier accented when he was telling me something that he knew i wouldn’t like, yet he could speak clearly to say things most women would like to hear. but, if that’s really the case, then i guess men are now geting a little of their own medicine. if a 40 or 45 year old is in this category he may instantly get a young woman pregnant, but he is the exception not the rule. love outside the united states is mentioned several times in this thread. seriously doubt that the childless women in their late 30’s are lying about wanting children., what lisa and melanie both overlook is what lisa uncovered herself:Lets not magically forget here that most 35+ men aren’t dating/procreating drastically younger women. if we’re overweight or unattractive we’re just screwed with a large swath of men. ive been looking for a good women to date and have dated some great women. doesn’t anyone bash you over this , if you were a man 41 years old and you had a 28 years old girlfriend everyone would be shocked by it writing comments about you “exploiting” the “poor little girl”. i have also heard that young people in iceland use an app to track family lineage, before ‘hooking up’ and dating. so it seems clear to me that he was saying that by doing this, he might get matched with these women, and they might see his profile and strike up a conversation. women are very aware of their age when it comes to children. i think some of evan’s advice is good, but too much of it is centered on what primarly makes men happy and doesn’t sometimes factor in female needs.. and cue the bitter red pill guys who will promptly jump in and advise everyone to give up on the american women who won’t have them (just might be the entitled attitude and blatant disrespect for women). i think men still follow stereotypes that are no longer valid."i have read it 10 times already, and keep revisiting it every time i begin to even hint at a moment’s insecurity. of all cases of down syndrome are linked to men 40 and over. lots of guys say they love women when they really just love women’s bodies and sex with women. i’m sorry but at 40 with a 19 year old and 15 years old sons i’m done with kids and ready to start living life again. find that asian women are usually looking for sugar daddies. the sad reality is that women were sold a false message that we could have it all. i have tried a combination of online dating, speed dating, professional singles events, volunteering, happy hours etc. so yeah if i had to choose between 2 men who are equally interested in me and let’s say one a bit older and one younger i’ll go for the younger. it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have kids but to pretend that the quality of men’s sperm as they age isn’t a factor or is simply a minimal factor, is based in ego, not reality. the lesson to all of you younger readers: take your love life seriously when you turn 30, instead of waiting until you’re 35 or 40. i do not recommend the mail order bride racket or the 90 day trial (fiance visa). older men need to understand how their own age contributes to the baby process. if you look at this another way, women 35-39 have a 75 percent chance of not having a miscarriage. now the majority of women can’t cook, are reluctant mothers and value their careers more than love. men losing the rigidity in their erections by the age of 33., the same thing can be said about older women, but you don’t see a lot of men rushing out to date above (or most times even in) their own age range. you read up a little higher, you will see mention of young women not wanting to date older guys who didn’t get their act together sooner. – that’s great but your personal experience doesn’t mitigate biology where men’s sperm does infact go on decline as they hit 31.!Tina, i don’t believe men loose it in their early 20s. as a 29 year old woman, most of my friends who have done online dating have stated on their profile that they’d be willing to date a guy up to 10 years older than them. we have other assets that women like if they aren’t beholden to racist beliefs and pseudosciences around race. the irony in it is he seems to only care about how older men are viewed, not older women. you are the same as women who think men are only good for one thing…providing them with material things or money. only in the united states many women are morbidly obese, have high blood pressure, diabetes, smoke, drink beer like water, and yet blame fertility and pregnancy issues entirely on age. to the men acting like all a woman is good for is bearing children, you are ignorant and i find you repugnant. he attributes this in large part to the feminism movement in this country, and also cultural differences in general. needs to change his entitlement position, however its society that puts pressure on men to have.“so many women are full of drama or have low self esteem or are inhibited – until they really come into themselves and know who they are in their mid-30s or so. since all 3 of these couples, obviosly the men in these scenarios didn’t think these women were worthless. i have my eyes open enough to understand that the real attraction for older women is the promise of easier, wilder sex. i used to think that i’m different than other women because i wasn’t physically attracted to older men (unless they’re viggo mortensen who is 50 but unfortunately they’re not).’s the deal and i know women hate this but its the truth. but i also like softer, more tolerant guys, the so called beta males, and it’s the younger ones who tend to be like that because they appreciate independent women. if your purpose here is not to help women, and based on your responses, it isn’t, you have no place here. wonder how many men say they do in their profiles, but really don’t, but they see how many women say they want more kids, so they are afraid to say no. men really want is a nice looking woman, who stays in-shape and grows old gracefully. a mentally abusive relationship, and a lot of bad dates and or one nighters.
Mens fashion dating advice for over 40
as for me, i’m 40 and had a baby with a guy 10 yrs. i never heard this type of comment from my mother. just like men are aware of the risks of having children with older women. yes of course older women have higher risks giving birth to healthy babies.’s weird is that most men 40+ don’t want more kids. would be the real reason that women are having difficulty conceiving. if you view the end of relationships as 2 people simply growing apart in lieu of “picking the wrong person” or “making a mistake” mentality? i’m 35yrs old & i’ve recently given up on our women., dating sites are full of women like you who like to brag about younger men wanting them so bad. two, women seem to be content in the fact that they are independent and self-sufficient and have a career, family and friends that fulfills them and don’t seem to be interested in truly finding a relationship., for a man who admits to living off his ex (“she paid the rent”) you may want to lay off the tirade of insults aimed at others and leveling judgement at women as being unworthy of you. both men and women can create babies into their 40s and beyond. another study found men 45-50 add two and a half years, on average, to the time to pregnancy. so, a guy who is 40-ish…i’d be wondering what he can offer. sorry, i’m not attracted to the balding heads, fat beer guts, hair in the ears, wrinkles, saggy butts and balls, erectile dysfunction, and over-inflated self worth of a lot of older men. since my kids will be grown by my late 40s i will have plenty of time to go on those adventures you speak of. wouldn’t that be something to see gorgeous 48 year old women being celebrated as much as a 23 year old girl? i want to pass on genes to my children with the kind of guy that truly likes women, not women’s ages. or is your view of american women so jaded that you think it’s ok for you to lie to them ? this is how it is for everyone – men and women. a coworker of mine from bulgaria has said that women overseas view marriage/relationships in much the same way american women did back in, let’s say the 1950’s. i know some really great younger men, who have had families young and although they do believe they may have made a mistake in their choice in partner, they are working on it and are absolutely dedicated to their children and their partners lives. studies on mice found a 50% decline by mid-life, human age 40, and a steep decline after and increasing miscarriage rates. but it benefits men themselves to be more aware of how their paternal age can affect their own off-spring. me if i'm wrong, but a few of your comments imply that you're trying to get it all perfect and not hurt anyone's feelings. over 36 yr old men, actually over 30 and the fun declines. sperm-quality may drop, but it doesn’t nose-dive at the age of 40 like egg-quality does; the decline is very gradual. perhaps it is because i suspect that these youngsters are misogynists hitting on older women for an easy lay, or to check off an item on their sexual bucket list. well, they set themselves up for loads of competition because those women are desired by thousands of men in the age range between 21-60 (both rich and poor). i showed my father the article about women 50+ being invisible. i’m not saying women should wait to have kids either, but it is not the black and white picture we’ve used for generations to shame women about their ages while giving men free passes for theirs. young men will hit on me online, and give me a bunch of bs about how they think i am so sexy and gorgeous and truthfully, it grosses me out. did enjoy the post by dashing one that said that women in other countries are raised to view age differently. if you can’t strike a conversation with people in public events, then get a dating coach or something! come to this board to tell us that all american women are b—-es and that you are trying to turn other men against american women as well because we are so awful, and now you come here and admit that you lie about something as important as wanting children in order to get what you want from women. the men who were interested in me, at 42, were in their late 20s to late 30s and did not want kids (neither do i), who were relieved to find a woman who wasn’t all over them to get married and start a family right away, the way the women in their mid-30s tended to be. heather is probably the ideal woman for the vast majority of middle aged men. another study found for men 45 and over, it’s 2 1/2 years. they have been bitter, ageist, inflammatory and filled with hatred towards men, especially men over 40. i have always desired virile men in the age group of 19-30. guys hate to ask for advice; however they can gain alot by asking women what turns women off about men . men can have all the sex they want without getting married. i will go a couple of years older or a couple if years younger and fyi fertility treatment exists and i know at least 10 women from the ages of 36-42 who have just had successfully their first child some with a second on the way…no help needed. don’t men hate being single as much as women do? i’ve gotten more attention from white women in europe than in america and that is telling. negatives you say of younger men also exist in “men our age” — lying or evasiveness, for example. i think women who have relationships with older men lack self-confidence. i have several degrees, own two homes, two cars, citizen of four different countries, lived on 4 different continents, just launching my own company with approx £1million pound investment and i am only 34. the other perception is that maybe women want a partner who makes enough money to help her raised their child(ren) as i realized now that i’m ready to start a family. most men in their 40s, especially the most eligible ones, tend to already have children or they do not want children. in online situations, women say they want desperately to meet a nice guy like me, but never answer my response to their profile. god…let me be a fly on the wall when these younger men leave these women because the women get too old. maybe you can do a little to be more attractive to the women you are looking at…. want encourage all the guys above the 40’s don’t give up, keep looking and you will find what you seek. (i caught so much crap when i was dating a 42 year old when i was 29) now that i am older myself, i really wish to keep it closer to my age, and with a man who is fit and healthy for his age (as am i) but i am not going to revile others for their choices or desires. who knows, there may be a spark even if through a comment 🙂. i tend to agree with some of comments here that said women in their mid 30’s just do not want to date anyone “whose age starts with a 4″. think most women can afford a year or two with a younger guy. beatiful at 40’s guy would have known from the very start that he’d have higher odds of having a kid with women in their 30s rather than 40s.
Online dating tips for men over 40 the difference is the latter are decent men not consumed by hatred for american women, and need to prove they are men by finding women they can walk all over. if you aren’t here to help women find love, you aren’t here for the right reasons., the women with whom he wants to get serious are 27-34., my fiancé is 6 years younger than me, so i guess we do have options of dating both older and younger. i know both men and women who are in their twenties who are about as dynamic as a wet firecracker.!When you are young you picture yourself dating someone within 5 years of your age . so if you won’t date a man who is 10 years older, don’t you think that men 10 years younger might feel that way about you? johnny, when i was growing up there were women who were having children in their 50’s. so, if men can’t move past the paleolithic, maybe we women are also simply “biologically” attracted to strong, attractive, muscular men who look like daniel craig and are fabulous providers. risk factor for men for over 35 is not same for women over 35. all men have a problem with a woman’s profession. it’s funny how it is the women (alert & just me) who are paying out everyone. rejected a few men in my past cause they demanded kids from me and i felt that they didn’t really care about my personality and it didn’t matter for them if it was me or someone else. but, when one of us ladies express anger, bitterness, or frustration, we don’t jump on them and say, “see, you are just bitter, and that’s why you are being rejected by men. i am 32 and i am just attracted to men under 30 and i can’t and i don’t want to change my desire. sperm quality and men’s fecundity drops too with age… and to the western guys who think they will import a much younger wife, alright you might, but i come from one of those ‘poor’ countries in eastern europe and i do love western men a lot. the older men who do keep up and are a tiny bit metrosexual probably have a easier time of it. because you need men to fight back against an increasingly combative and intrusive government. then you use examples of wealthy elderly men who had children with much younger women. there are many women in the same position as you, if you have the heart to look at women the same way you look at men. i see plenty of men like you when i do my groceries… i say excuse me to get by and they think they have a chance and they start talking … it’s cute and all that but no! a woman has a much better chance of having healthy children with younger men, than older men. there were plenty of men in that range messaging me. of all cases of down syndrome are linked to men 40 and over. so obviously this isn’t about age not mattering for everyone but the continued belief that men don’t want their age specifically to matter to women while guys want to maintain the privilege of most certainly qualify women’s worth based on their ages. if he wasn’t getting enough attention, he might assume that the match maker wasn’t working because many of the women list unsure. i saw some women in their late 40s also stating yes.’s the reality of it– and i know that i’m speaking for a lot of men. many posts of yours that i saw until now have this “lets look for young women overseas” line. while there are exceptions, most younger women (most women in general) prefer to be with a man who is within the same age bracket as we are. i know for a fact that most very eligible men in their 40s do not want children. but just because you find men over 40 wanting kids as being less mature and less sexy, doesn’t mean someone will. i feel as if my entire life has been about making men happy, so i understand your frustration. i was growing increasing frustrated that the only women interested in me where either:Had children, never married. you women don’t need a safe place, you need a wake-up call. can you not understand that, if all of the multitudes of diverse women in your own country don’t want you, it’s not the women’s fault. i do think that younger men take better care of themselves, overall. at most, i will say “unsure,” just to open my profile to more women, because i think there may be many who are saying yes, but don’t really want to, or are open to not having them if they find a man that can give them enough love that they don’t feel the need for kids to fill a hole in their lives. pointing out that women biologically have it worse when it comes to fertility than men is somehow hateful towards women. i am broke by american standards, like most black men in america we don’t need money to get women, duh. however, and this may just be me, but i tend to relate best to men who are *slightly* older than me and, at 37, a 42 year old man is rather desirable. but if none of them are looking for you, your wheelhouse is going to be women in their late 30’s to early 40’s:Find the people who want you. data from more than 60 teams of researches on health risks associated with older fathers discovered that men over the age of 35 (which i personally find to be young for a man or woman yet biology clearly doesn’t) had a 50% lower chance of conceiving over a 12-month period compared with men 25 and under. helps confirm what i have suspected all along about certain men avoiding me because of my profession. now, men are also being discouraged from having children in their 40s due to exactly the same kinds of health concerns for the child. i’m a 34 year old tomboy and all my friends are men 40 plus. you may want women for selfish reasons (status, sex, etc. think the issue for me is that i never have problems finding men my age and older, that are desirable. and for the men who pointed out that childbearing in women over the age of 34 is a risk factor, there are risk factors in children of men over a certain age too. but remember a huge percent of men in this age bracket are divorcees with kids., the “biology” argument has totally lost traction among biologists, behaviorists and the medical community. i’m not a “cougar,” because i do not seek such young men out., considering your derogatory opinion of women over the age of 34, i don’ think women are going to feel they are missing out on you if you decide to move to another country. the advances in medical technology, women over 40 are having healthy pregnancies everyday. women get all up in arms, when men write with such contempt about 30 something women longing for a husband and family. so research what men in their 30s are wearing, talking about. now at 40, young men see me as confident, intelligent, sexy, well-spoken, & self-assured. i hope i’m married by the time i get there because if i’m not, i think i’ll just resolve to remain single after seeing the attitudes of women here. why the world likes to tell itself men age better.
Online dating advice for men over 50
“…men age a hecka of a lot better than women! a man in his 40s, 50s, and beyond is considered a “dirty old man” for having the same desires. the way, in this world both men and women can be gold diggers. think women are tired of dealing with a general sense of entitlement a lot of men seem to have about women’s ages. just because more women over 40 are having their first child, what they don’t tell you is that many are medically assisted. from prostitution to marriage (some would say they are closer than most people think) men are free to choose who they want, women have less practice at that art and you see the results. men have two options for getting a younger hotter woman. all women want an ambitious and hard working and successful man. women want it more and men can provide it less. many women of today are interested in dating and claim they want to find a good guy, but in reality, eh … not so much. if you don’t know that, you are probably not paying much attention to your women in bed. apparently, he did not feel comfortable dating a woman of a different religion. even when you look at sources about men’s biological clocks, they still pale in comparison. you are losing out on a huge pool of women. but maybe you aren’t good-looking or employed in the way that women like. i like women 5-8yrs younger than i and the biggest opposition i get is from older women that wouldn’t bat an eye at getting with me. so even though i will not date 40+ women, i decided to see for myself all of these raving beauties over 40. i don’t get why these guys don’t see that women are looking for the same thing: younger. ahead and continue to assume i am social inept or a loser because the reality is, i have removed myself from the us/eu dating market. women being scared off by men who disclose their agenda too soon. women who date older men are often less attractive so find difficulty finding someone their own age or need financial support. when i online dated in my late 20s early 30s the thought of dating a man over 40 was creep city to me no way i would have done it! most men are still fertile at 42, while most women are not. the issue is that women can tell you fundamentally just don’t like them as people. but dating is one of the only true free markets in the world. i work with allot of women who waited till their 30’s to have children., you summed up your perspective when you said, “women have it much worse…. no offense to this man, but i agree with the women who say that he waited to long. other women down market also have a high opinion of themselves even if society doesn’t, think porn stars and i live in the san fernando valley, so dating them when you catch them at strip clubs or local watering holes is a total possibility. beautiful at 40 was just unlucky to get caught up with him and not be able to suss him out properly. i am working towards balancing a dating life while raising….)i have friends who when they were 25 or 26 years old had children with down syndrome, autism, physical or mental handicap issues. problem is only d-league women want me, no thanks, i am taking my show on the road and so should the op, dating aw at his age is a losing proposition. i can’t say i have too much sympthy since most men usually don’t really care how this issue affected women. this email has the potential of stereotyping all 40+ men as “womb diggers,” but the reality is, most do not want kids. am 50 and i have women in their 20s wanting to date. so if your 40 and looking most women younger than 34 aren’t going to look at you twice. i don’t date black (american) women, feel free to attack that if you want. the truth is that we are no longer cavemen and we have made a civilization that rises above that kind of nonsense. are plenty of women online in their late 30’s who already have kids and don’t want more or maybe would like to have more kids that will date men in their early 40’s but of course those 40 something guys have to be “hotter”,”richer”,better job etc than their 30 something counterpart. wow i am constantly reading how 30 something women say they all have their choice of hot younger guys, and don’t need or want older guys. i am 42 and while the women who stare at my profile are in their 40’s, they are 45-47, da fuc? btw, most men also want a woman who will “provide” – leaving men as contributors in what way, exactly? i will cover more of the possible issues of late pregnancy in women over 35 if you are interested. and with that comment, it is more obvious you aren’t here to support women in finding love but to attempt to bring them down.” of course, even in that case, you’d only be getting the dregs, since decent women don’t date men just for their money. risk of miscarriage and premature birth rises once a man is over the age of 40. both men and women have fertility risks as they get older, and honestly those risks aren’t actually very high, so people need to stop making it an issue. so many women are full of drama or have low self esteem or are inhibited – until they really come into themselves and know who they are in their mid-30s or so. get a 37 to 40 yr old woman and still have kids. mean ‘age was but a number’ when women where picking men but not when men were picking women. because as strange as it sounds — women as a whole aren’t really interested in spending time with men who dislike them. the 50 year old mid life crisis men are the worst. i don’t think you wanting kids for men 40 is really a sign of immaturity for every case. (i do love though how we love to pretend that 35 year old women are ‘old’ though. i have news for you…i know the young hot studs that chase older women. i thought that online dating would be great since you are essentially pre-screening people for dates. btw lately the single guys i have met who are in the 40s, they act so old which turns women off. i did have a couple of relationships with men who used the pill.
Dating advice for men over 40
let’s not forget that smart, strong, successful women also desire smart, strong, successful men who makes big $$$. but here may be a shocker to many of you: a lot of us “baby boomers” (men and women) have taken pretty good care of ourselves. i know men and women over 50 whom i can’t keep up with.…the bigger takeaway is that all of us are very judgmental on age. which is probably why alot of women who marry older men end up divorced in their 30s. not all men have that attitude and those who doesn’t will become great fathers- and great husbands 🙂. it’s not fair to place an expectation on me to give you a child when i already have so much that i’m dealing with because you waited to long, and with this i’m not trying to be harsh but it really isn’t, and with a lot of these men there is that expectation. i find plenty of men over 40 who are not couch potatoes. the women that you cater too here are from what i can tell generally wealthy and successful which means they have a good chance at being able to afford it. the perfect example of this syndrome is every man on any dating site that refuses to date a woman his own age or older, yet expects younger women not to screen him out. for all those average men who waiting too long and now feel entitled to a cute young “breeder,” dream on. perhaps if all this pressure wasn’t placed on women about their age both through society and by men in general, women would be more open to dating older men. it’s a fantasy in your minds that all of you women are going to hit the lottery and find that needle in the haystack guy that will marry an older woman.’t tell you don’t know women well, neither do your friends, or whoever men you are claiming to agree with you. for the age thing, yes i was into older men for many years but lately i see more and more options from younger guys, sometimes with more serious intentions than the ones a bit older than me, who just got divorced many times and want to compensate themselves for all the years they “lost” being monogamous.? i don’t understand, just because a woman is in her 40’w doesn’t mean she’s dead, and her child barring days are finito! there are plenty of “men our age” who haven’t found themselves, too. i can’t understand how dating, love and family become a gender war instead of an extension of our humanity. maybe this may sound wrong to most men reading this post, but i think it is wrong for a 40 plus man to date a woman 10 years younger than him. remember when i was a teenager, my grampa would take me and my friends to the amusement park & ride the roller coasters, etc. just like men no longer just want to be an extension of their paychecks or job. i ended up getting twice as many messages from men my own age, who didn’t want to admit that they were one of “those” guys who can’t handle a woman their own age. so if you’re asking women out who are 3-5 years younger than you (37-39), these are supposed to be the women who are most desperate to find a man because their biological clock is ticking the loudest. are many pua sites which will give you tips on what women are attracted to. but you women that have your heart set on marrying a younger guy? of all cases of down syndrome are linked to men 40 and over according to the first major study of its kind. men over 50 where 8 times more likely to produce children with dwarfism. we also want men to like us for who we are, what we are. they, too, have a lot of dating options, are busy building their careers, and don’t have a clear urgency to settle down. typical white liberal women trying to play the race card.’m a 32 year old woman who gets hit on frequently by men over the age of forty who are hoping that i can give them children. the very least, younger men are good to look at naked. food for thought, it is the women who control reproduction, not men. but there is definitely a market for young men you are very attracted to much older women – and not for their money. adam, sad to say…you’ve had your chance to meet women who are in child bearing age and can have your children when you were in your 20s and early 30s. we don’t make new eggs as men make new sperm. but more realistically, she won’t want anything to do with you, because most young women don’t want to date old dudes (over 35). a man in his 40s is really past the age of reproduction as well. the only guys that have big philosophies regarding what age of women they will date, are usually the guys that have very limited options themselves and need to soothe their hurt egos, by pretending to reject women first. this is why you are having such a hard time finding women. who said “women should not settle for being slaves in the kitchen”. as soon as she was able to make contact with men, she would let them know that he divorce was not yet final, but this also allowed her a chance to give an explanation. then through in that if he did that, there might also be some women who are on the fence, not really sure they want kids, but they feel lonely, need someone to love, and like a teenage girl , think popping out a baby is the answer. when you meet people face to face in public, people with good character and who are not judgmental are not going to turn you down b/c you are 42. perhaps one day you will happenst…"persephone on why don’t men hate being single as much as women do?’s bad enough that people (men and women) lie about things like age, height, smoking habits etc. one, that younger women are no longer interested in dating men who are even just slightly (3-5 years) older than them and sometimes want to date men 5-10 years younger then them. i hope when i’m married i have a man like him who loves me at every age and who has actual respect for himself and women. don’t understand why you think women who wait to have kids are screwed up. are women expected to date men with a lower educational level? i found, while dating again in my early 40s and wanting to date men my age, that they “all” wanted younger women because oops! women in their early 30s are much more likely to get pregnant in a year if their partner is under 35. if she is late 30s and up, younger men see that and think only of the here and now. it hasn’t been that women can’t have kids in their 40s (i personally know three), it’s that we have been told we shouldn’t. you women are here for a reason…because those upper top 10 to 20% of worthy guys haven’t found you worthy., i can also tell you about more than one american man like you who choses to blame his failures and shortcomings on others (in this case, all american women), who went overseas to find a poor, dependent bride, got married and ended up in the same place — cheated on, trapped by kids, and broke after she cleaned him out and returned to her home country with a small fortune. 40 and over are at a higher risk for children with several different mental and physical disorders, many women in their 30s know this and are probably reluctant to date in your age group. 35-40-year-old men who are ready to settle down still want to have time before becoming dads. study in england found women aged 35 paired with men aged 40 were 50% less likely to conceive compared with women paired with a man 10 years younger.
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– can you see how strange it is that you wrap up your comments by telling others not to judge but your entire post is nothing but some terrible judgements on women? women want to be with men that truly like them. i allowed to be offended by the guy that chooses to “date” and “have some fun” but then expects women so much younger than him, to hook up with him and start breeding once he hits his “i’m now stable” stage? however, there is not enough conversation and information given to men about how their age affects children as well. also, the older men (50+) dug me, because to them i was a “younger woman” who didn’t have any baggage or expectations when it came to wanting kids or more kids. of them successfully went to other countries and found wives that love them and produced children, some of them before the internet was widely used as tool to find single women. most men in their 40s who are dating are divorced, already have kids and do not want more.” that isn’t a comment based in truth nut one based on your prejudices against women. internet dating sites are dominated by women between 34-50 years of age. thankfully, i have never met men like you in real life. however i have read uk medical research report that the older age of men not women were a huge factor on the increase of autism.@norbert – you appear to be a white guy and you magically get to comment on race but no other white person doesn’t? and also the age of both men and woman counts as well. men don’t look any better than women as they age : they get a fat belly, wrinkles, ugly teeth, lose hair, bags under the eyes …sorry! 35-40-year-old women who are ready for marriage, unfortunately, are roundly ignored by the men they desire – their 35-40-year-old peers. so maybe you should attribute those wonderful kids of yours more to your wife instead of bragging about your accomplishments specifically. never being attracted to women your own age and even getting “grossed out” by them sounds like an issue around your own maturity. the majority of white women that stare at my profiles and sometimes message me are over 40 and beyond the age of having children when i clearly have stated i want children in my profile. if the world is your oyster and you can get hot women well into your 40s and the dating market favors you, why do you seem so consumed with tearing down the women here? i tend to date men who have kids and are not looking for more because i too get a lot of well i want kids you are too old., there’s a lot of clueless older men here that will probably never find love. wasn’t until i started dating again in my late 40’s that i could find men who affirmatively did not want children, or like mine, their kids had flown the nest. ask advice from your single and married women friends on what you can improve- on your online profile , appearance, socially. 10 million readersand the thousands of women i've helped find true love. says he is discouraged at women who are 38-46 who are childless and want children. with me if you will but as rule men age a hecka of a lot better. women are harassed off those sites, and are capable of dating irl, so maybe the remaining ones are those that fit into the 35+ category that even older men think are unappealing. so we think in terms of short relationships with older women. for those of you who have watched “love actually,” you’ll recall that the men fell in love either with foreign women who couldn’t speak to them, or women who had such a different career (tea girl vs. no other race goes out of their way to have their own language, and anti-establishment persona. i’m aware that i’ll probably have better luck with older men but anyone over 49 makes me feel like i’m dating an uncle. is that buying more car than you need not to appear cheap (b segment compact) or immature (said b segment hot hatch)? the women here do not exist so that you can feel like you have female attention to spread your negativity and dislike for the female gender. point is, stop judging everyone else, when clearly as women, you are in control when and if you have children, not the men! yet these women are willing to give you a chance and not seeking someone younger. washington dc there are alot of single black women with houses and no kids making over 0,000. far more of the 40+ ladies were fat than the 40+ men. there are still plenty of 25 to 35 year old guys out there that are more appealing to those women. it’s great that you only know such wonderfully healthy men that beat the statistics but it is not based in the reality.-an under 34 year-old woman who would never think of dating a 40+ guy. men and women start to lose their fertility at about 25.’m fit, i’m sharper than i’ve ever been in my life (and less stupid), and i have women on my mind as much as i did when i was 18. these women still have money to make, places to travel and oats to sow. as quality of life continues to tumble in the united states, women will increasingly look for the bigger and better deal and calls for polygamy will get louder; further impacting men in the lower ranges of the middle class. further upholding an equally terrible idealology that women don’t like each other or can’t get along and only like men clearly furthers your own agenda of spreading hate against women. i have no problem with the skin color of black men, but i do have a problem with black culture. a study of women 35-39 found they were twice as likely to get pregnant if their partner was under 40 vs. does your religion teach that it’s ok to lie to women to get what you want ? if you want women to like you, you actually have to like women. out what my blog can do for you, and what type of man becomes a dating coach for women. because i keep seeing all these comments about waiting too long, but i thought it took two to tango and i needed a willing partner to have a child. statistically, infertility issues are caused by women 1/3 of the time. reading these posts, it is clear men and women are just not on the same timeline!'ve never been on a "beige" date but from the women who first described it on this site to me; it seemed that "beige" dates are fun and full of lively conversation…"adrian on should your spouse also be your best friend?’s the deal though, overseas there’s very little market for american women, but there’s a huge market for american men., all old sites allow you to write a free form profile, so one could explain that they are done having their own biological children, but would be open to dating a single parent, if that option is not available in the drop down box. if i had it to do again i would have a child young (with someone else young) because it is easier on your body and gives you more time for enjoyment on the tail end of life. he was one of the few men that treated me like gold but you know what? i also know women in their 40s giving birth for the first time to super healthy and smart babies.
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haven’t played around, i am not willing to settle for something that was unreasonable and my dating life got progressively worse as i got older. i suppose that is why i see a lot more men going to other countries to find a companion. do know when i was in my early 30’s, anyone in their 40’s seemed old to me! you may be attracted to women, you may love them or want to sleep with them, but you do not have a fundamental respect, true appreciation of or like for women. i’m mid-30s, and read so many comments from women about how awful the older guys are. the flip side, i have seen men in their 40s and 50s state they want kids yet they indicate an age range of 35-45 in their search stats for a woman..ontop of blaming women for the outcome of your own life. am told that women want to settle down and have kids, etc. it doesn’t matter how many degrees you have or houses or whatever nonsense about money…women want to be with men that truly like them. they’ve let their hobbies and interests lapse because they’ve spent every free moment of the last 10-15 years shuttling junior and juniorette to endless practices, games, recitals, and play dates. would a woman under 35 take the risk of reproducing with a man over 40? especially older men who are not taking the balk of the finiancial burden.’s not that having a sex drive past 40 is bad. women like to feel they are valued just like you do and not just for their hot fertile bodies. there are plenty of women who would love to be with a successful older (but not-so-old) man, especially one who wants a family. as i have said before and you can listen to the podcast on freakonomics radio (online dating and marriage 1/2); economist paul oyer said –.. i am 40, healthy, wanting to have a relationaship, have kids. reality is not that american women only want 5-6% of american men. default culture has not been beneficial to minorities and now it is focusing on men. if she spent most of her 20’s and early 30’s “single” then i think there is even more resistance to finding a man in their 40’s that she sees as immediately settle down with, have a kid or two, and be an “older” couple. i guess you stuffed up, because anthony is black as he has stated in some of his comments. i am 33 and never had trouble attracting men in their 30s. two large studies found huge declines in male fertility by 40, with a 50% decline for most men.’m surprised women aged 37 – 42 aren’t interested interested in men in their early 40’s. also ran into a series of women who either couldn’t have children or had one child and then had to have their reproductive system removed. the deep personal connection, young men and young women usually miss out when choosing their partners, because the other two factors blind them initially. even to the point that a man wanting to date someone 5 years younger leaves women feeling that the only biggest men appreciate about them is their age. they are not looking to be a vehicle to your dna or come to websites designed to help them find love, only to find men like you here you clearly are not interested in helping women find love. but then the late 30s to late 40s women will admit that guys their age or just a bit younger don’t want them. problem is most think i am in the 18-21 age group and i am actually 34 and men in their 50’s are trying to date me. should be able to date younger men without any social stigma. sure how old this post is, but i know dozens of men over 35/40 who had their first child over that age and they turned out more than perfect.’m in my twenties, but i think most women would be looking for someone closer to their age, when starting a family. what’s good for the goose… don’t you realize that women don’t want to date someone who looks like their fathers any more than you want to date someone who looks like your mother? to 30 yr old men hit on me all the time. they find this 40yr old american guy they will hold on to him for dear life…. everything you said this far is about supporting your own agenda of women settling for older men. some of my younger male friends, do give me back some of my faith in men and people overall and i hope their marriages prevail. i am 31 years now and i tried online dating before and found some guys in their 38-42 who still not looking for serious relationship. when i was 22/23 years old, men in the 50s/60s were contacting me online-gross. is a huge opportunity being missed here by the online dating companies. i can show you plenty of ratchet behavior from so-called “educated” black women., and don’t bother pointing out to me that women lie to men. just turned 40 and dated a 47 attractive guy who has never been married and never had children. youre outing yourself as broke on a dating advice blog – god help the women you actually ask out on a date. i’ve lived abroad, in central america and the caribbean, and let me tell you something: the majority of women down there actually dig guys who are older than they are. i am grossed out when men more then 5 or 10 years older then me hit on me, not because i think there is anything wrong with age, but because i think there is something wrong with someone that age trying to sexually interact with someone my age. of women are tired of men treating our ages like something they are owed and deserve to own to carry on their genes through children. men the clock is on your side and if you’re not finding reasonable options in america, there’s always overseas. to the op, i wouldn’t listen to the arrogant 30 something women here, because they don’t count at the real women out side in the real world, that is why they are on online dating sites, most of them are lying about their age in their profiles anyways, and they wear heavy makeup to cover up their age when you see them in person. older men preferring younger women thing though, doesn’t seem to have any end to it. any luck, you still have 40 to 50 years ahead of you – plenty of time to see your kids grow up. but the bigger takeaway is that all of us are very judgmental on age. (sort of how some men mumble or grunt if they have to tell you what you don’t want to hear) so i really couldn’t tell if he was passively-aggressively erecting “language barriers” when convenient, or if the language/culture barrier was real. if you can’t like women when they are older, then you won’t like me when i’m older. sites like okcupid and pof might attract more older users (men and women) because they require more content for relationships rather than just looking for hook ups. evan, is it my imagination, or are women, generally speaking, much more likely than men to expect some sort of lightning or magic on a first date for them…. you mark for reminding me and reassuring me that not all men are as foolish as “anthony. but then, there are many younger guys who also have the same negatives that some older men have.
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at singles events, women come in groups and are reluctant to talk to men. parents were in their late 30’s by the time they married, and didn’t have kinds until their mid-40’s. concern many women over 35 hear about most often is down syndrome or other chromosomal abnormalities. there are many problems associated with men having children over 40 no matter the woman’s age: decreased fertility, significant increases in many diseases/disorders, and the fact that the man may not have the energy/be around long enough to take care of the children. they have no problem screwing you, but remember, like you said, when you were 23-25, men didn’t want kids. the liklihood of a child having the problems you mention, particularly bipolar, skyrocket when bio dad is over 40. since your target of choice is women, why would you support another man in his degradation of women? but since the late 90’s, there has been this effort to discount men over 40, while simultaneously boosting the value of women over 35-40 which is right at the tail end of woman’s ability to have children without medical intervention. a man in his 40s, 50s, and beyond is considered a “dirty old man” for having the same desires. energy is one of them along with thoughts of retirement…etc. a study of 600 women in their early 20s paired with men in their 40s found they typically took two and a half years to get pregnant. know two women who married guys considerably younger than them. and i think if you don’t want men to devalue you based on your age, you shouldn’t devalue them based on their age either. i had a quarter for every comment saying “i look 10 years younger! often complain of douchebag behavior and older men not having much self-respect. however, dating sites that focus on partnership and marriage tend to skew more heavily female. they overcompensated for years of oppression by devaluing men and overselling the power of women to the extent that the social mirror for women these days shames women who want to be stay-home moms. i ended up with a man who is 39, i guess there are plenty of men and women who are in the same age range who find one another. by about 33 men are also starting to lose the rigidity of their erections. you’re looking to answer your most pressing dating and relationship question, my blog is like google for your love life! love how all the guys posting here rigorously defend their attraction to women extremely younger than themselves by using the tired old “biologically wired” line. when you’re 60 and your mate is 40 there are going to be some major differences between you. we can go from short relationship to short relationship, even with older women who are easy because they are “enchanted” and maybe, at some point, a slightly younger woman we really want will come along and want us back, and we will get married. for men like him with money they can look for women in countries where age is not considered in the vein you describe. he ended up at the beginning of the war in interment camps, than ended up fighting for a country that was taken over by the soviet union, he couldn’t return home because he fought on the wrong side and was considered a traitor. if kids are a priority to you men you really need to look for this in your 30s as well. all of these women were very attractive for their age but in the long run is where the problem comes in for most people. if you aren’t here to be helpful toward women, you don’t need to be here.’s not a matter of whether it’s more risky (which is true); the fact remains that older men can father children well into their 40’s on a regular basis, while women cannot. why would a woman in her later 30s or early 40s want to give that up to pop a baby out for some egotistical male who thinks the world just has to have his genes passed on into the next generation? am a 38 year old woman, the challenge is that most men in their 40’s act and seem old. some people told my i should put “divorced” to “open up my profile” to more men, and that it wasn’t important. some researchers are recommending men freeze their sperm if they haven’t had children by age 35. would date a 42 year old, not a problem, but as you say, men in their 40’s are looking for women who are in the 27-34 year old bracket. i see it from women and men…not just from anthony. you seriously suggesting that only 5-6% of the male population is desired by and has a chance with american women? get over yourselves, also to woman in their 20’s early 30’s, you’ll be in your 40’s soon, and you’ll thank back to the days when you wouldn’t date a man in his 40’s. 30 it seems that many men begin to distrust and hate women. they are young and hot, even if the younger women don’t see them as hot. actually find it hilarious that you waited and now, you want kids with a 20 something year old and you are in your 40’s. men are not dirty old men just because they find young women hot. putting that aside for a second, i may be wrong — i can likely guess what those “assets” you are referring to are — but what i see you saying here in that you are willing to indulge in a racist stereotype about black men to attract white women but then you get upset when some white women don’t want to date you for reasons having to do with race? so now, i will try dating a woman who knows from the start that i want a family of 2+ children and that our relationship is based on love and trust. i don’t see anything your post that indicates that you actually really like or respect women. and if you aren’t here to help women do that, to find love, then you are here for the wrong reasons. am 32, good looking (not hot, just cute) and do not wish to be with an older man, quite the opposite, i desire younger men. men seem to think that women have to have children before 30, but men can mess around until they’re well into their 40s and 50s + to have kids. is interesting i notice some other women who are actually similar to me. over 40 increased their daughter’s chance of having breast cancer by 60%, increased their off spring’s risk to epilespy, down’s syndrome and childhood leukaemia. again, i do not read that rusty was intending to defraud those women., this is the basic mechanism of physical attraction, and much of it is undeniably visual for most men, and that means young women. but men are not magically less autonomous here just because they don’t actually birth babies.’s sincerely strange to me how many people *only* focus on women’s fertility . some researchers are recommending men freeze their sperm if they haven’t had children by age 35. i’m 26 and i view men over 35 as a huge risk factor – autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and severe genetic mutations are common in men over 35. its not that i wont date them but they have lost thier fun and mojo unless they have been divorced they are often more bitter than women.’m 40 and i’m hit on by men in their 20s and 30s all the time. i can see why a man would not want to just say “no,” because it can come across as not liking kids, and might scare away the many women who have one or two children that he might be willing to date or marry. women now are expected to be career girls, smarter than men, ‘independant women’.
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i say enjoy the realization that you’ll be single until its fairly obvious you biologically can’t have children or you better start considering men who married early, had children early but finds himself divorced in his mid to late 30’s. might want to consider their advice and look beyond what this country has to offer… just saying. so men instead of whining about american women not accepting you and evan telling you its basically unfair but that’s life. in my early thirties and their is no way i would date a man in his 40s. and i’m not talking about liking the way women look or smell or the desire to have sex with them. women have been discouraged from having children after age 35 due to concerns about downs syndrome and other issues. personally, i do it because younger men like me far more than older. you can’t blame women who have other options for not going that route. and yet, you comment on things designed to be hurtful or to rub things in each other’s faces. make a good point about 40 something men being out of it. this is a website women come to because they want love. i think evan’s analysis is right on about men wanting younger women who aren’t yet ready to settle down – although my biological clock wasn’t ticking anymore, a lot of my (professional) women friends had children in their late 30’s and early 40’s. read some of comments here and it’s so sad. says: if i am broke by american standards, like most black men in america we don’t need money to get women, duh. while i would like to have a child, i just can’t at the moment. i always had trouble getting girls / women intrested in me, and got rejected all my life… now at age 43 i dont want kids. don’t believe you have the ability to assume some sort of insight into dating women outside the u. my experience has been that age has no bearing on how fun a person is to be around, and that goes for both women and men, friends or boyfriends. the big difference in our society is men have had entitlement in this regard for a long time now, telling themselves all kinds of things about their own aging process that just isn’t true. men and woman who are in relationships together are also having their children in their early to mid 40’s. last response i made to you regarding men not having it as easy as you think, you completely ignored. you have to actually like women if you want a healthy relationship with one. women can go-on assuming i lack tact or some other social skill in order to attach the opposite sex., what’s you’re problem, men can have children at any age, unlike women, who’s eggs start to lower in numbers with each year after about 25. response to joes comments– ” i am not a ufc buff guy, what i think i can not beat down with my own fists, i would use a bat, if for some reason my bat broke, then my shotgun. are finally starting to realize that they can’t be “just like men” in all aspects of life. women above a certain age, women who have average or below average looks but who have integrity and might be a compatiable partner are not good enough for men like you. further, women arent stuck up just bc they arent into you. men get impotent at 40 plus years and have to get on viagra. solution for all people (men and women) is to imagine what you want in a mate, how you’d like to be treated, and understand that (with few exceptions) the opposite sex feels exactly the same way you do. to you, women seem to be similar to cattle or sheep. judgements against women shines through though when you say things like “typical women’s spiteful comments”. men just not care about language and other verbal barriers when it comes to finding a mate? in person, i am often approached by men 10 -15 years my junior. i see men in my age range who put “unsure” about kids, i pass ’em by, i really do think it is a lie to try and reel in younger women. women and men’s biological clocks are not the same. would date a man in his 40s but he would have to be the kind of man that wasn’t setting out to specifically date younger women. but since younger men still exist in droves, younger men, just like younger women, are the prime sexual partners. thank you for the stuff about the young guys… have had them honking at my car, flooding any dating sight, etc etc. you know, those women who were once young enough to have kids, but met men that just couldn’t make that commitment. you cried about anthony stereotyping all black women, so how about you stop stereotyping 40+ men. take a walk through walmart and you will see no shortage of nasty looking men in their 20s and 30s, and in my experience, they tend to have more problems with hygiene than guys my age and older. are 38 probably 39 by now and you dare to call a 40 years old man (just one or two years older than you) an “old man”? a 30 year old can relate more to a 20 year old than a 40 year old, in many instances..I really don’t think the women are the problem here. usually, once they see that women over 40 can be pretty, they are happy to date us. he is also able to feel more confident because while the younger women send messages that say they don’t want him, he realizes that his youth has value, and that older women are more likely to want him. lots of us women have grown up while watching our mothers spend 20+ years raising kids, day and night, always putting others before them- which was very sweet of them- but also seen our dads not doing this- leaving us kids or just spending their days as they wished(formally a father, but not putting in that many hours neither in child upbringing nor housekeeping), coming home expecting the moms to do everything. just because he is stating facts about his own women in his race. whereas women still in their 30s wanna go out, do stuff, etc are even financially independent to continue to do so without tying herself down to be a child-bearing machine. there is alot that women do that turn a man off. the first major study of its kind found the reason for the big increase in ds among women 35 and over is partly because they are frequently partnered with men 40 and over. the women here want to find love with men that honor and respect us. despite what many of the older men who comment here want to believe, we aren’t all desperate enough to end up with men 20-25 years older than us. men are significantly more fertile and will beat the odds but at most they are 30% of the population because time to pregnancy numbers are averages. (dead giveaway is when you’re dating or just married and her family members back home start suddenly dying in large numbers and she wants you to give her money to send home “for the funerals. and for all of you, women, a man will naturally want to have kids with you when you are in your most attractive fertile age of 20-30 yo. a 2011 article in scientific american concluded that children of fathers aged 50 and older are at a significantly higher risk of psychiatric disorders such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorder so it’s not just women who get to old to have children. no, men don’t have to move along with the reality that has changed a long time ago now, because it’s not reality and it never was.
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i know there are gold digging women in every country and they know who to find easy targets — bitter, shallow, insecure american men looking to fulfill a deluded fantasy and willing to shell out what cash they have to soothe their egos– and they know how to play you like a violin. people should try dating people in their own age groups if they are unable to get people younger. one of them was aiming her comments at me being 34. women are not in their prime in their 30’s and 40’s (at least men don’t think so). and actually there are studies that have shown that older women often have more intelligent children. i really wish things were different and people weren’t in this predicament but that’s simply how it is. what is; my opinion that older women still have more value than younger women which is a fabrication of western media. look at you, deciding what these women want before even meeting them. that same logic applies to older men chasing younger women. many women, myself included, are more than happy to date a “decent” man who makes less than that., they all scream at you that only young, fit girls and women are worthy of being sexually desired. but the truth is women are tired of men’s sense of entitlement around their age. the men in their 20’s have at least one chile father (baby mama). i have found that i get no responses from any women online and the only women who respond to my ad are usually much older and don’t meet any of my criteria outlined in my profile. guys sorry but for the most part women that young looking at you are looking for money and such and although all men are different as a woman of 38 i can tell you sexually men over 40 and certainly 45 struggle to keep up with me now i can’t imagine at 30. says: i can continue to give you examples of american men who are not among the 5-6% of men between 18-35 that the majority of american women want. i get emails from butt-hurt women who say i should accept them if they have children already and they aren’t too old to have more kids at 36-37. i can’t be bothered about it less, as those who like me or love me (including men) don’t really care if i get paid for arguing, sowing or painting. you say things like “i won’t consider them for even a dog catcher at this point”, yes, the likihood of women missing you if you left, is highly unlikely. is an increase in spontaneous miscarriage with an approximate risk of 25 percent in women age 35-39 and 51 percent in women 40-44. there are plenty of other websites that certainly share your beliefs about why women exist. but this website is about women finding quality relationships with quality men. also find plenty of 40+ men who like to go out and do things. and i can attract younger women… but i’d also really like to date women my own age… same problem though, they’ve either given up on themselves completely and or they are so jaded and sore its just one huge emotional mistrustful minefield. this website is about women fviilding better relationships with men. men, on the other hand, produce sperm basically for life and the defective sideways swimmers don’t win the races that matter. the risks of older men doesn’t really become that severe until over 50. but please show women the same kind of kindness you’d like for yourself. however most of thoes women are not just looking for an old man who is “financially secure”. lots of these men impregnate white women, latinas and asian women though to a much lower level because 90+% of black men say they want to marry black women. you don’t want children at all you’re actually the dream girl for a lot of men in their 40s, if you’re willing to date men that much older than you. i am 54 and get hit on by women in their late 20’s ! women are still hard for me to get, but i quit trying 20 years ago. guys who go around saying stuff like “men age better than women” and “only young women are valuable” sound like jerks and i wouldn’t want to date one anyway. we don’t need men like you here who are only looking to devalue our worth and make us feel like we are undeserving of love with our peers because men like you are looking to feel superior over women..i think i now know why those women left you.-i never said men over 40 were just as fertile as men in their 20s, i was they are much more fertile than women who are the same agre. in my experience, most men don’t give too much thought to the future. the fact that you just made such an irrational, blanket statement about the entirety of another race pretty much reveals all anyone needs to know about your emotional intelligence. this isn’t an mrm website where we need men hating on us. i never thought much of dating an older woman, but boy since i hit 30yrs old women seem to make a bigger deal about a guy dating younger women. i have men fall at my feet at the grocery store asking me to put diamonds on my hand, especially muslim men. also pass men by when they list all relationship goals (sites like pof, let you select one or all relationship goals) yeah, when i see a guy who says his relationship goal is everything from one night stand to serious long term relationship i don’t respond to that e-mail. so im happy when both are removed from the dating pool. most of us in our 40s are in the same position as you. with men over 50, a pregnancy was twice as likely to end in the loss of a baby vs younger fathers. the pattern here is that when guys are younger and sowing wild oats, they will gladly have sex with older women if she is decent looking. men are even more averse to marrying older than women are. i also chose to peruse the 40+ men to see what was on offer for the ladies., you said “i have no problem dating a younger guy or a guy my age; it is wise to be open-minded otherwise you are limiting yourself. this goes to any other man who has waited till he is 40 to settle. both men and women get older and it shows similarly. once you understand where men are coming from, which i would not have been able to do without the help of "why he disappeared," it is very simple! fact is, most late 30’s and 40 somethings didn’t have many relationships and children early on because they didn’t want to just have children by just anyone, they didn’t want to be fast asses and rush into a relationship. it’s the same exact advice i give to women in their early 40’s who want men in their early 40’s…except men in their early 40’s want women in their 30’s. women deal with so much external pressure about their age that i think are tired. you are not even accurately citing actual facts about men’s biology, choosing to hold tight onto your fantasy of what you want your’s and other men’s biological worth to be vs the reality of what medical science proves to be true about the reprocusions of older men being irresponsible in farthering children. where this supposed ‘gender war’ is concerned, i think a lot of it is men, some men i should say, trying to conserve cave man day values and beliefs about women and women continuously trying to show that yes my baby making abilities and other qualities as a woman are great but i am more than just that. if you think about it…33 and 40 are not that far away.
Online dating advice for men over 40
Secrets of Online Dating Success For Over 40s: Part 2
i have no problem dating a younger guy or a guy my age; it is wise to be open-minded otherwise you are limiting yourself. but stop trying to convince women to be with older men when you most certainly would never pick an older women to be with.’m 34 and i still don’t want kids so for many men here i’m considered “damaged goods” right? she might still want to catch up a little on the “fun” “couple” life all her friends got to have – that youthful couple life of vacations, concerts, sporting events that she spent a lifetime of doing single and wants to catch up on some of those milestone moments with a guy in his 30’s who still seems to live that lifestyle before wanting to “settle down. like tinder are also more attractive for younger men and women. couples are having their children in their late 30’s and early to mid 40’s. it’s funny how much you guys dislike being evaluated for your age even though men do that to us women alot. and it shines through in the way you choose to talk about women here. have several online dating accounts and as a mid-30s man, i have seen multiple posts talking about how bad 40+ men are. these women are youthful and find themselves far more attracted to men in their 30’s than their 40’s. and to this day i am still amazed that women think it’s perfectly ok to tell other woman that they are full of it for wanting an older man. i feel that some women are simply making excuses to justify their lack of desire to date older men. at least he didn’t settle for the wrong woman like a lot of men and women do. i’d venture to say that most women who are at the settling down phase would be willing to go at least 7-8 years above. that would be two children with two different men and they never married. that note, there are studies out there that say older women specifically, not older fathers, are more likely to have smarter, taller, stronger children. women want to be with men that like them and respect them. and some women are choosing to have children, but not in the traditional way. guess what – i live in one of the countries of eastern europe and none of the single women i know dream about older men from usa coming to save us from spinsterhood. i can’t tell you how many women i’ve met who were left with the kids when a marriage fell apart. at 40, they increase 60% over when a man was in his 20s, even with a woman under 25. i’ve been waiting for one of you guys to jump on and run up the benefits of finding a “girl” from a disadvantaged country you can exploit because women from america won’t have you. also allows me to see that many men my age and older are a lot of fun to be around, and date. but like i said contrary to popular opinion with people that read my comments on here, women like me. my point: i’m tired of bitter, disillusioned men calling women a gold digger, lumping/ judging women when there could be a million reasons why the relationship did not work out. think of it this way if you married someone at 40 had 1-2 years before you had kids. all this stuff about women not wanting to date men over 40 don’t know anything about this subject than they do about fornicating. it was directed at the person mention in the article but it seems everybody wants to get personal when i point out that women in america are not the cat’s meow and that other possibilities exist. they whine all day long that women (35 and under) are so horrible to them and use them. 14 percent of births in the united states are to women 35 and older. women aged 35 took 5x longer to get pregnant by men aged 45 vs women aged 35 with partners in their twenties., i’m a lawyer too and i noticed many people (not just men) tend to act on presumptions about lawyers as people, forgetting that law is what we *do* and after the office door is closed, we are perfectly capable to live your human lives. even if you aren’t like that, will your child identify more with that crowd in school, and end up with that mentality in the end? women who are educated and didn’t have kids young don’t want to settle for just anyone. usually to the time it takes a woman to get pregnant but by 40 it’s a year and a half. we don’t need to here about all the ways men like you devalue us. we are in agreement that if it is long term that you want, a guy our age or older is a much more realistic route to take, and not by just a little bit. men and women who enlisted during that period of time were not eligible for the vietnam g. it seems men and women are looking at dates as if they were part of a contract of need and are not looking at each other and are just interested in taking rather than giving…. have tried everything and online dating is still not working! but from then on, the men were my age, a couple of years older or younger. but that is probably because i don’t even feel much sexual attraction for a man until i have a mental connection to him. i have no respect f0r men or women for that matter that date way younger then themselves, it’s abnormal and reeks of some kind of underlying emotional issues. additional thing i’ll say and this is thorny but i don’t care; whenever we (as a group) talk about dating in america and its problems we’re talking about white people."yag,A lot of older women are so hungry for closeness with a decent guy that they fail to realize that they are scaring the bejesus out of him.!I get everyone wants their freedom and fun when they are young but 40s not young, 30s not young and 25 is pushing it. i think when you have money you must be crazy to date and marry expired men. if a younger guy marries you, will he wake up ten years from now and realize that you are way older than him, and start chasing younger women? i by-pass alot of men online because the way they list their age preferences easily weeds out the men that are agist toward women. is the new 40, 40 is the new 30, and even black is the new white! unlike men, women have the same eggs at 20 that she had at 40. wouldn’t you have dated him when you were 40 portiaonline? no, they don’t look 25 or 30, but i feel sorry for the women who can’t see them for the catch that they are. women that already have children and dont want more should date men in their 40s they do want children,such as myself . but someone should be telling this to younger men in their 20s and 30s: if you seriously want to have children you have to get your “stuff” together, grow up, and start taking it seriously just like women have to. for this man, i sincerely hope that he’s not throwing away potentially good relationships with nice women over this. as “dashing-one” mentioned above, only in america do we negatively view older males who want to start a family later in life. once we filed the papers, i kept my status as “separated”, but did mention in my online profile that my d would be final by year end. still won’t date a guy over 40 and i’m in my late 30s.
Dating in Your 40s - Tips and Advice to Master Dating After 40
most men and women want to be able to filter based on age, each person having their own comfort zone.’m 48 now with zero health issues, and in fact in better physical condition than most 20 year old men.’s letters like this, that make me lose my faith in men. online dating sites can hide the fact if they are really single or is it someone in a bad marriage posing as a single. clients"evan rocks as a dating coach, and if he can change my life, i promise: he can change yours, too! but perhaps men could do the same for us ladies and not always be looking to date someone necessarily their juniors – such as the man who wrote to evan wondering why younger women were not interested in him. women here, love and are having children by men 8-15 years older than they are. we have other assets that women like if they aren’t beholden to racist beliefs and pseudosciences around race. the penalty for not making 50k rescuing women the rest of male society impregnants and tosses back? yes, women’s prime is in their 30’s and 40’s. i know i am one of these women, for several reasons. feminism is pretty awesome because all feminism is the realization that women are equal to men. if you’re not on par with that, well then, i just you’ll just have to accept reality and deal with being passed over for men who are. is it so strange that women 2-5 years older than you would look at your profile? realistically speaking, he is going to have to find either a woman in her 40s who wants to have kids (not impossible for sure) or try to court a younger woman. also women are in their prime in their 30s and 40s. i find men who don’t want kids at that age to be far sexier in both mind and spirit. my aunt had her last child at 40, my mothers best friend had her last child at 44, healthy. i am not 40 but i do love older women, and yes i would settle down with and older woman, 5-10 years older isn’t a huge gap as some are trying to make it seem. would call a man who wants children after 40 a womb digger, its unimaginative and proves that some feminist are in fact misandrist. so while fertility may be an issue for women sexuality because one for men! you’re completely wrong about us not wanting to date men who make under k. this website doesn’t exist for you to respond to every woman here trying to solidify your own imagined genetic legacy, and the legacy of you elderly father (your poor mom), because you don’t believe women of all ages are deserving of love. here’s the more relevant point to this article: most women under 34 don’t want to have kids with some 42 year-old dude who was so immature and ambivalent about having a wife and children that he put it off forever, when they could be with a guy their own age! it is in real life as well… there a lot of white men falling for foreign women (especially asians) who don’t speak english very well but are very cute. i for one get discouraged at the number of women 38-46 who have never had kids and list in their profiles that they want kids. of… women like me contrary to popular thought about men and online dating. thus, their target market remains women, 27-34 – who may not be ready to settle down quite yet. women you go out with must get a pretty creepy sleazy feeling hanging out with you as this is the same feeling a man would get when he meets a gold digger. studies on mice and in some fertility clinics found a 40-50% drop in fertility for men aged 40 and increased miscarriage rates. many men are biologically wired that way, and no complaining or debating will change that. i would recommend that you adopt, for the health of your children, but even then, at 42, you would be 65 by the time your kids graduate from college! 37 years old women refuse to date men only 3-4 years older than them and they go for the much younger ones. by the time a man reaches 40, the mutations in his sperm has tripled to 65. i often wonder what would happen if the media began to put the focus on finding women of all ages sexy and desirable. the age of a woman is real important to you then you would be better off thinking in international terms… (women from latin america, europe, middle east, south america, and asia). so it could you be that younger men are actively avoiding women that they are related to. i guess its cause when the disagreements appear, they are impossible to solve due to new arguments presented by each party, lol. i do know dating sites that tend to focus on casual sex and hooking-up do tend to skew male. i have run into certain men who are prejudiced against female lawyers.!, my syster has naturally my niece with no treatment and nothing whatsoever at 44, my niece is 5 years old now! has been my experience that most women from there mid twenties on up that are single already have children and i do not believe that i need to bring any more into this world i have no children i can love someone else’s children just as much as my own no matter the age of the woman or the child and there are helping the fax throughout all h is of man and women as far statistics your research goes they say wolves don’t attack people that’s been proven wrong another thing i’ve noticed drop my life and i am 40 + is people in general man and women seem to want what they cannot have and the more they can not have it the more they want it and i believe the gentlemen’s issue in discussion he said she did not want to have kids and i am 44 years old and an extremely good shape i can out work out hike out hunt the majority of men in their 20s i have spent my life building strength they have just begun. i have found that a majority of women online in their profiles place a huge emphasis on financial specifics as to what their expectations are for the man they are seeking. the reality is that you want the 5-6% of american women that don’t want you. the end of the day this factors drastically change the dating pool for me as african-american/black man in america. and yes, that is your personal issue, not women who are single and over the age you have set in your own head where they lack worth. like many people, i’m now divorced and so am trying to navigate these strange new online dating rituals, but i’m not unhappy with my situation.? with high unemployment since the financial crisis has been locked into normalcy fewer and fewer men have the means to have finance rising a family by typical middle class standards which in western terms is somewhere around 0,000 a year (2 parents, 2 kids, typical trappings). there is mounting amount of evidence that the ” cougar phenomena” is b. every other country in the world women keep having children until menapause. so maybe women can stop bragging about all of these options they have with younger guys, because no, you don’t, and your first sentence said so. save us the propaganda about how great 40+ women are and how awful 40+ men are. are so right i was about to say that there are women outside us and other countries that the disgusting liberalism and feminism haven’t destroyed people’s natural relationships. i know men who married non-american woman who are wonderful women and they are happy? i got to admit a guy waiting till his 40’s and beyond. would i have dated him ten years ago when i was 40? can also say, all throughout my 20’s i wanted children, but none of the women i dated did. they know you are and they know all women are.) just the ones that have no yet accumulated the emotional intelligence to relate to women, physically, emotionally and mentally beyond pre-pubescent fantasies.
Online Dating For Women Over 40: The Hopeful Woman's 10 Step the avon longitudinal study of parents and children found men who were ideal physical candidates and had more sex than the average middle aged man were still 35% less fertile by age 40. suggest women look at amy webb’s ted talk about her difficulties. if fact, you’d probably be supportive of his choice, and say how your own dating experience with women over 35 (or 30, or even 25 in some cases) reflects his observations. if you are offending women, they are not going to want to date you. know what you mean about too many men being afraid to disagree with women in certain areas. face it, many younger men are still trying to find themselves, which is not attractive to younger women, so the left-overs are more open to at least dating an older woman. which reminds me that those choice 20 something guys are quickly going to be the older guys that don’t want the older women. i agree that most 40+ men don’t like to go to clubs to dance, but neither do i. it is about treating women like breeding cattle who are there primarily to boost a man’s ego (by providing bio kids, looking “right” on his arm, fitting the profile he has invented). you’re lucky much of this info is not widely viewed public knowledge as it’s not good for people like you, it destroys all your preconceived notions about american men who marry women from other countries/cultures., i dislike the attitude of older guys towards older women or women their own age. – it’s not just that men’s fertility goes down as they age., if you read, he was stating clearly that if he were to do that, it would be to get his profile in front of women who “may” be less than truthful…and yeah, we all know every woman is truthful on her profile, right? men generally don’t care about what a woman makes and i am one of them. that being said, i personally am not averse to dating an older man provided i like him, we have chemistry and there is no pressure on my part to give him a child. men like you will never understand or acknowledge is that when your intentions are shallow or dishonorable, you will attract and find yourself with similarly shallow and dishonorable women — regardless of their nationality. but the only men that court me are 40 – 50+ guys who look at me like prize livestock. i was 32, i met and started dating a girl who was 4 years older than me. never mind that law is a profession with laughably low satisfaction numbers, but you dated women who argued for a living? i think men think they have their entire lives to have kids and don’t really focus on it until this age then look around and no one in child bearing years is interested in them. it or not, black men have earned a reputation as a group, that is not attractive to most women. i understand your motivation to cast a wider net however beware: some people abroad are only using us to get a visa, gold-digging, and many immigrants over a certain age, tend to struggle to adjust to life abroad what with the language and cultural barriers, not to mention emotional traumas from wars/conflicts/ political instability they endured. also, while some men may just want a woman for her womb, some women just want a man for his sperm. there are simply not enough hot 25 year old women to go around for all the men that desire them. he wanted his cake, and wanted to eat it too…and doesn’t spare a thought for the women, who may have wanted children and still do, but are running out of time. they should be overjoyed that a man not old enough to be their father is contacting them and at least send back an e-mail, even if the whole process doesn’t get to the dating phase. i find a man sexier than other men when he shows me i am worth fighting for, worth sacrificing for, worth spending a lot of time with. and yes, the rate of infertility goes up for women and men with age. when i was in my 20s i dated women who were 12 years older than me. far more women these days just don’t want children. i don’t have the desire to sleep with men who look like my father. it’s when men want to play around and not grow up until they are 40 and then expect that they deserve a younger woman after they had their play time. but i do believe men ignore their own reproductive responsibility and blame women for the brunt of the responsibility when medical science is discovering that men are major contributing factors to issues in children. might be a cesspool, but their women sure aren’t. i do wish however, that older men would leave the young ones alone. in fact, most young women (20s to 30s) would prefer ryan gosling or channing tatum over their “dad” george clooney, so don’t kid yourself. most men go on pictures anyway but if they screen out anyone under a certain age in their search results, they simply won’t see you at all. frankly, if you are not appealing to american women, you aren’t actually any more appealing to a foreign woman. the younger people reading this blog, i would advise to follow evan’s advice, and make finding a spouse more of a priority in your twenties. word gets out that some 40’s men are looking to have kids, so women list wanting to have kids, men see this and list they do to, when in reality, many of them may not want that.’m 26 and i view men over 35 as a huge risk factor – autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and severe genetic mutations are common in men over 35. all women age and if you’re going to insult a woman just because she’s 10 years older than me, you’re basically insulting me 10 years in advance. i can’t speak for all women, but it’s important for me to have something in common with the person i’m dating simply because i find it easier to relate to them that way. frankly, nowadays women are leading a more active lifestyle than men in general. clearly, you are insecure with yourself and need reassurance that men still find you attractive. they always throw out canards like men’s fertility goes down as they age. unless he has something very special that sets him above all the other men in their 30s and early 40s, younger women will likely reject him for guys closer to their own ages., its only natural that older women would start to gravitate towards younger men if men their age act like they should be put out to pasture once they reach a certain age. am not sure what income bracket he’s in, but historically for me it been about 30-35k so moving down market, means chicken heads, single mothers with multiple children, overweight women (like my ex) and mousey women. women have it much worse, because they fertility goes down quite a bit in their 30s, while’s most men’s fertility goes down a little. all this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain. i had no idea that my younger self desire for an older man (10-20 years depending on the man) was so unusual or was so repulsive to other women.” even our history in the medical field has contributed to this level of sexism when women were once largely and only blamed for birth defects back in the day. older men (among even my early 30s guy friends), they tend to wanna be couch potatoes and home-bound. glad you had kids and all but that doesn’t mean women shouldn’t factor in men’s ages into the equation when choosing life partners and people to have kids with. it is not a website to help men find walking wombs. i agree that yes there are some older men that have the same negatives as the younger guys. and for women at 40 to get pregnant, the chances of the baby getting down’s syndrome is 1-100. are a lot of great guys out there who are in their 40s and 50s, who are in great shape.
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Dating after 50: Waiting for sex and 5 other rules - i tend to agree with some of comments here that said women in their mid 30’s just do not want to date anyone “whose age starts with a 4”. evan stated many times and as commenters have pointed out, maybe people with bad relationship histories should reflect on how they got there rather than blaming their poor choices on men/women of certain ages. the vast majority of these men don’t want anything long term, and many will lie or be evasive about that fact. 1,000 questions already answered:search for:Ask evan: ask me a dating question. the women here do not exist to be walking wombs to carry on your genetic line. you are either here to support women or support your own agenda. so while she may have less eggs, the medical community has discovered that young women and older women both have about 15 genetic mutations to their eggs either way. and we are rightfully angry when they come to this blog to sneer at the over 30 women looking for love & family. little research would give you a lot of information about men’s contribution and risk of medical issues through conception. person who would call another human being a “depreciating asset” is not worth dating. also, the way some of my colleagues comments come across like they never really wanted children and don’t love them. when i got around to dating again i found that men in their 30’s and 40’s were mostly like adam – they either wanted kids or had kids, along with an ex-wife and a custody schedule. most times when you see a young woman with a man over 40 (i said most not all. i do not see where he intended to trick women. for some reason, you think women are supposed to serve you. and a man who only likes women when she is young, doesn’t really like women at all. when i was in my late 30s/early 40s i lived with a woman that was 15 years older than me. meaning, marrying a younger women did not increase an older man’s ability to conceive or magically mitigate risk.,,thus far i haven’t talked about black women who are a complete train wreck in this country and i won’t consider them for even dog catcher at this point. get a reality check, man – the cold hard truth is that you’d prefer buying yourself a woman from some disadvantaged country than actually invest in your looks and do lots of inner work to eliminate the deep seated hate you have for women. did not indicate that he says “unsure” to seem open to women who already have kids, but to open his profile to women that he thinks he may be able to convince that his love is enough, and that they don’t need kids to fill a “hole in their lives” it is dishonest to say that you are “unsure” if you want kids, just to try and appeal to women who say they do. and you presuming to know what women think of older men compared to younger men is just wishful thinking on your part. started dating seriously since age 26 and i’m now 31 and still no luck with love. this is the second time i’ve come across your post where you’ve felt it was your entitlement to make the statement about ‘typical women” this and that.’s funny how it always comes out of the mouths of women, this type of talk. frankly, i can see why the 40+ men choose to try for under 40 women. women want to be with men that actually like them. tracy is saying the exact same thing guys say about dating younger women – the only difference is the female perspective – and so many guys are quick to jump on her for it. some women come with kids already and there is always adoption. 40 can seem ‘old’ to those of us who are fresh out of our 20’s. problem is that many women from 27-34 are independent professionals just like their male peers. you can talk all day long about what men are entitled to and what a man ‘needs’ once you find that website that supports your perspective about how women exist to serve your needs as a man. there are plenty of asian women in their 20’s and 30’s that are looking for an older guy to get married and have kids, there are plenty of latinos women, incredibly hot and mature, that are easy to settle, there are plenty of eastern european women, russia, poland, bulgaria, ukraine, just name it few. can continue to give you examples of american men who are not among the 5-6% of men between 18-35 that the majority of american women want. they’re either very dominant and controlling, still trying to sew their oats, unfaithful, burdened down with children from previous marriages or relationships, or they are sweethearts with great potential as wives; however are usually surrounded by very the negative types i just mentioned that want the more desirable girls just as corrupt and miserable like them. luckily, there are still a few cool guys out there who see women as actual people instead of sex toys. no wonder most women in the work place for example don’t get along with each other. someone mentioned being scared of seeing a 50+ year-old-woman’s body, but it is way scarier to see a naked man in his 50s, especially someone who has let himself go. i thought younger guys dating older women was so gross when i was in my 20’s but now i see that it isn’t at all. time catches up with men too, as much as they would like to deny it has any effect on them. let me repeat that, 80% of black women have a child out of wedlock. most men with confidence can bloom wherever they are planted. those women have precious few years left to “fill that hole” in thier life, and to target the age group with feigned ambivilance towards children, when the real answer is a clear cut “no” (especially if he has had a vasectemy, don’t know for sure if he has, but i think he has stated as such) is unconscionable and i don’t think it is “melodramatic” to say that lying about relationship intentions is dishonest. now i am not saying that is unique to black women, because dusty arse black men are just as responsible. however, just like i think a man saying any woman over 30, the fun declines drastically, is an idiot, i think the same of women who would say that of men. i’ve been getting hit on by women 15-20yrs my senior my whole young adult life. it’s kind of like the woman who mentions her desire to have children too soon for a guy’s liking and he scatters off. a study in hull, england found the average time it takes a 40 year old to get a woman pregnant is 2 years, regardless of the woman’s age. said all of the above there are still lots of old guys dating women in their 20s and 30s while they are 50 and older. women can physically conceive and give birth up until menopause, which typically happens in a woman’s 50s and 60s. so, there are wonderful, faithful women out there that don’t mind marrying a man who makes less and doesn’t mind being head of household. you should look for the website that helps men find walking wombs that will carry on your dna instead of trying to force women to view themselves as the walking wombs you see them as. i notice a lot of women putting their age ranges lopsided in favor of younger men. i am single and not online dating but maybe someday hope to find the love of my life and that dream i will never give up. i’m dating abroad now and am in a great relationship with an educated, beautiful and childless 23yr old woman abroad. our twins have outranked most of their peers since they were in elementary school, and they are among the youngest in their graduating class. far i haven’t talked about black women who are a complete train wreck in this country and i won’t consider them for even dog catcher at this point. last note…modern medicine has made it such that age is not an issue sexually, for the majority of older men. it sounds like tracy isn’t looking for anything serious anyway, which is fine, so i would take her comments (and the comments of any 40+ guy trying to date 15+ years younger, for the same reason) with a grain of salt.